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Please tell me this guy is not using me?
03-19-2014, 12:17 PM
Post: #1
Please tell me this guy is not using me?
So I've been seeing this guy for the last month & things are good. He texts me good morning and reminds me on how much he misses me and what not. I've gone out on three dates with him and they were perfect! What I dislike about him is how he NEVER CALLS ME, NEVER FACETIMES ME, or really makes an effort for a "good conversation." It's the same boring "Hi, how are you, what's up, I miss you, I want you, and etc..." Like nothing is new or changes. And when I try to get a new convo going I get a one word reply. Obviously that's BORING.

What should I do? I want him to call me. (I have said it to him & he either avoids it, ignores, and says he's shy." He rarely FaceTime me! Just text text text. Why?

Is this guy for real. He already asked me to always be his even if I'm not official with him. && I'm the one bragging about him in social media. (Taking pics and making him my statuses.)

But he has bought me a cute cheap necklace and took me out on a $80 dollar date

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03-19-2014, 12:23 PM
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your being used im sorry

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03-19-2014, 12:28 PM
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When you say someone is using you it means they want to sleep with you and then leave you, did he previously brought the subject "sex" and you told him you do not want nor feel comfortable talking about it and then he started to act like that? If your answer is yes then you are right this guy is trying to use you.

If what I just said above is not right then you might need to ask him as in why does he not talk a lot or why does he not call you or face time you. He might be shy or awkward or the type that goes silent on the phone or FaceTime but is he like that in person or is he much talkative? If yes then don't worry about it if no then sit him down and tell him what you think and how you feel
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03-19-2014, 12:34 PM
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might just be using you girl
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03-19-2014, 12:42 PM
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Hi have u thought he is a dud and really doesn't know how to treat a g/f, not all guys have the gift of gab so it's up to u to remind him there is far more in life than texting ,like face to face meetings it's called COMMUNICATING on a PHYSICAL LEVEL .....OK ♥
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03-19-2014, 12:51 PM
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Get rid of him and find a guy that will treat you like the princess you really are instead of just his piece of a$$. This guy does not deserve you and will never change.
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