Songs/poems/quotes/tumblr/Instagram blogs about moving and/or parents fighting/divorcing?

[Maddy]

I need songs about parents fighting or divorce, I've already heard the usual.. "Stay together for the kids" and that ever clear song, and family portrait and all of them. I need one that I've NEVER heard of. Stuff I could relate to I guess is havering a depressed brother, parents fighting , mom leaving, crying, yelling in the middle of the night. Idk. Me and my brother are the only reason they aren't divorced and that kills me that I'm the reason they can't just forget about eachother and be happy. Or do you know any Instagram or tumblr blogs focusing on parents fighting or splitting up. Like Instagram and tumblr poem and quotes blogs. Or poems and quotes on tumblr and Instagram about always having to leave home and move and meet new people and always start over. Because I had to move to London twice and and back and forth and meet new people and leave them and start all over again.

[Precious Gem]

Only song I can think of is " Papa was a rolling stone...." if your parents' fighting is bothering you then tell them. Divorce happens. It is sad but you can get past it.

[Brandy]

Maddy, I don't know of any songs like that. But I am SO SORRY about your parents making the lives of you and your brother miserable.

If I could, right now I would definitely give you a long, warm, tight hug for comfort and support. You sound like such a nice sweetheart who is really hurting inside.

Please go talk to a counselor at school, and ask for help. The toxic and hostile relationship of your parents could literally destroy the lives of both you and your brother. I did peek at your other questions, and it sounds like you have an eating disorder... which I blame your idiot parents for causing.

Meanwhile, please don't starting hooking up with losers, drinking booze, taking drugs, or cutting to try and ease the pain. None of those things will take your life into a positive direction.

BTW, I'm also sorry that your sweet brother is depressed. Of course he is; who wouldn't be depressed living in an emotional war zone???

So please, please please... go and give your brother a long warm hug, and kiss him on the cheek. Whisper gently into your brother's ear that you love him dearly. Thank him for being a good brother. Rub your little nose against his nose, and rub your cheek against his cheek. I honestly think that being close to your brother will make you both feel much better, and that you two should agree to become support buddies.

Personally, I think that you and your brother should sit together on the couch every day, and just hold each other close for love and support. The only stable thing in both of your lives right now is each other. So talk about your plans for the future, and how you can both look forward to moving out when you're old enough. Maybe you can make plans on getting an apartment together in a few years.

Normally, I give advice to sheltered teen girls who live in happy homes, so that's about all of the advice I can give you. But her is some standard advice that I give to those girls about guys, dating, and sex.

Please read the last link (stress test). Please don't ever consider suicide as a way to escape your pain. Yes, your life would be over... but the pain you'd leave behind would be unbearable for your brother.

Dating and guy advice? OK.

How can you let a guy know that you're interested?
- Make good eye contact.
- Smile.
- Act fascinated by whatever he says or does.
- Ask him questions.
- Do these things every day.

What should you do if you are attracted to a guy? If he seems friendly, then just be straight up and ask him directly if he likes you. Don't be a chicken, and don't use friends to ask.

Lots of guys prefer the blunt and honest approach instead of subtle hints, mind games, and random people getting in the middle.

How can you tell if a guy likes you?
- He'll stare, try to hang around you, find stupid reasons to talk to you, maybe act nervous... stuff like that.

However, the motives for a guy's interest in you is VERY important... so you'll need to evaluate that, too.
- If a guy is mature and he genuinely cares for you, then he'll be concerned about your feelings and your long-term best interests. That means he won't be trying to get into your bra and panties too quickly.
- If a guy is just lusting after you... then his top priority will be satisfying his own selfish desires. He'll lie, and tell you that he loves & cares for you. He'll tell you whatever he thinks will work in an effort to get into your bra and panties. That's how losers & players operate.
- You probably won't be able to tell too much about a guy until you get to know him better and he gets you alone... and after that, it should be pretty obvious where his priorities are.

How to kiss?
- No onions or garlic prior.
- Breathe while kissing (holding your breath and turning away to breathe feels like rejection to the other person).
- React positively.
- Don't clamp your lips closed.
- Suck on his lips... pull them gently into your mouth.
- Don't feel obligated to french kiss (i.e., rubbing tongues) if you don't want to.
- Trill happily (i.e., softly moan) while kissing.

When you find a nice BF, then keep him happy by giving him some simple problem to solve (homework), ask him to assist you with something helpful but definite that has an ending (like washing your Dad's car), and give him some compliments. He also might like to bake sugar cookies with you.... but only if you promise to give him some of the raw dough to eat.

Don't make the mistake of thinking that a BF will become your BFF. It ain't gonna happen. Guys simply don't want to sit around and talk endlessly about your feelings, their feelings, their history, their future with you, who did what to whom, or whatever. Sorry!

Also, females trying to talk to a BF in endless detail about her issues and conflicts only serves to make a guy really annoyed. Why? Because young females rarely listen to or implement any advice given by their BF for a solution, and then the following day the BF is expected to listen to their GF's next load of crap ALL OVER AGAIN... crap that she won't take any advice for anyway.

On a related note (in which I seem to be in the minority these days)... I just don't think that a sexually mature female should attempt to look like a prepubescent little girl down there (meaning slightly trimmed is what I do with my pubic hair). That's simply my opinion.

The trend towards the complete lack of pubic hair apparently started back in the 1990's. Bill Clinton made oral sex "mainstream" when his activities with Monica Lewinsky gained worldwide press coverage. However, a female is not required to perform oral sex upon command (nor is she required to have it performed on her) just because a guy asks for it.

If a female wants to engage in oral sex, fine... that's her choice. I don't want to engage in oral sex. That's my choice.

However, if a guy's dick is infested with STD's... then she'll get STD's in her mouth. Good luck with that!!!

Finally, I'd suggest not dropping your panties for any guy. I'm saving myself for marriage. That one single policy has unmasked countless miserable jerks who at first seemed genuinely nice... until they discovered that they weren't getting any. That's when the mask dropped and they showed their true intentions, their true character, their morals & standards, and their priorities.

Below are a few links that might be helpful to you.

Y!A dating advice:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...vVYj8b74aa
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Y!A advice about players:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...aKoCJZR1aa
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Y!A virginity advice:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...526AAmBbpu
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My "First Kiss" Story:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?...558AAeJG08
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Do "Fairy Tale Romances" Really Exist?:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...014AAwBIK5
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Bible Story Tract:
http://www.flickr.com/photos/76132533@N06
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Stress Test Assignment:
http://brandy-morrison-10085.blogspot.com/