Was this woman being rude to me on Facebook?

[Garfield the Cat]

The other night I was in a bad mood and I wrote an old friend of mine a message on Facebook over how I was feeling about me feeling shunned and neglected by lots of people and she just read my message without responding back yet I did notice she seemed to have a lot of time for her other friends

Later that night I've expressed myself towards this woman by her reading my messages without responding back and me feeling like she didn't appreciate my kindness and told her she had hurt my feelings by not responding back to my messages, she arrogantly told me that she is busy talking to her family and that I should go talk to my family over how I'm feeling, then I apologized to her for us expecting to stay in touch on Facebook and for the previous message I've sent her over how I was feeling.

Sadly out of the blue she just flat out deleted me off of her friends list

[Stop Using My Name]

She wasn't being rude. Not responding to your messages immediately isn't rude. Calling her on it by sending yet another message about it is rude. Claiming that she didn't appreciate your kindness because she didn't respond the way you wanted to her to was also rude. Calling her arrogant because she was choosing to speak to her family rather than you, is rude. If you'd treated me like that, it's likely that I would have deleted you off of my friends list too.

[Patricia]

I don't see how. You obviosly wanted to vent and she's not doesn't want to hear it. Fb is deceving, you think it's your friend but it turns out not to be.

[snowglobe380]

I think it may have been alot to load on an old friend. I assuming you both haven't been close contact in awhile. If so, then it could have been too much for her to respond to in the circumstance. When reconnecting with someone it may have been the wrong time to mention such personal matters so soon.
Also, some old friends may feel disconnected from old friendships and may not relate anymore.
I had an old friend I messaged to ask how she was. I saw she read it on facebook and did not message me back. However, she responded to others. I just decided to move on. If she was interested, she would respond. Oh well.

[Sharon S]

She was being rude. You don't need her for a friend if she treats you this way. You are better off without her and go find others that are not this rude to you.