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Advice on a long time crush?
03-21-2014, 12:21 AM
Post: #1
Advice on a long time crush?
So 3 years ago when I was in grade 12 I went on my schools grad trip to punta Cana where I met this really awesome girl. We hit it off while in punta cana, hanging out during the day and night (get your mind out of the gutter we didn't do it!!). After the vacation was over we continued to stay in contact thru msn and Facebook messenger. She lives in Halifax, I'm from Toronto. I guess I have a crush because here I am 3 years later still thinking about her. We do still keep in contact on Facebook here and there. And I was recently saying how I'm going out east in the new year and she said "if you visited me I'd be the happiest person on earth, honest to god!" I guess my main question would be do you think she might like me back? Or is this just a stupid crush I should give up on?

Also, I got her number from her Facebook profile. Would it be weird if I texted her? I did used to have her number a couple years back but since getting a new phone I lost it. She recently deleted her Facebook account or something because she is no longer on my friends list. It's not that she removed me as a friend because this was a new account she had just made and made sure to add me to it. So yeah, she has no Facebook so I can't ask her for her number, even though I already have it...

Thanks for the help in advance!

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03-21-2014, 12:31 AM
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This sounds like a love story from a movie to me lol. Okay so my advice would be that text her, i don't think its even that weird or creep to message her since you said she gave you her phone number right? Well i've never really been on types of situation on giving advice about their crush far away from them except from my one friend who he said that he had a crush on this one girl that he wants to visit. Anyways in my opinion if you really want to visit her like you're dying to see her maybe i think you should go for it. Btw if you're going to text her say that it's you and say its been a while since you've talked to each other, that should take the awkwardness away. Good luck! Smile

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03-21-2014, 12:46 AM
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people say after a certain amount of time it no longer counts as like (which is a crush) it is love. I don't remember the amount of time but I do remember it is before 3 years. I think you really do care about this person, and would really like to see her again, being that you guys have been in contact since you guys meet. I think it would be weird that you texted her. I do know people post their numbers on Facebook, but I still like the when people give you the numbers this way you know that they have it. But if you decide to text her make sure you tell her who it is, and how you got her number all in one message this way she might not be as creeped out on how you got her number. But if I had read your whole think instead of just reading and respond, just how I read, I would text her, and explain what happened, saying you got the new phone and all contacts got lost, and saw that your number was on facebook so you decided to get it that way.

I would text her and tell her basically what you said, that you saw her old facebook and took her number that way.

Good luck! and I say you are in love with her! I hope everything works out well between you too.
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03-21-2014, 12:54 AM
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I would say go for it all the way, but a long distance relationship...
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