Should i talk to my crush/best girl friend at school today?

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Well we talked for about two months and we got really close to each other and she called me a brother to her. All we really did though is text. We would text everyday in the morning when we were on the bus, at school, on the bus after school, and all day after school, so almost 24/7 besides sleeping. But every good thing must come to an end so texting just happened to slow.

Now it gets confusing. A few days before Christmas, I texted her and we talked for about ten minutes until she said she was wrapping presents so she had to go. I texted her the next day and no response and then on Christmas I said merry Christmas with no response. About three days later i was just going to say hey one more time and just if she doesn't answer i would quit bothering her. Also not to sound super clingy. But with my luck her mom texts me and says she is grounded from her phone for right now. So it was kinda embarrassing for both of us and mainly me.

So now go backwards about a week. We werent talking as much so i was going to stay after school and help her on homework. Also i wanted to try to talk more in person. But i talked to her and all i basically felt when i was around her is that she was acting really weird. She a mixture of shy, sad, mad, happy. So just all weird and that was really awkward for both of us.

I would try and help her and she would ask the teacher, or i would see if she would copy and she would say that we shouldnt because it isnt right to copy. So she was acting kinda goody goody just a little. Also if I talk to her she is paranoid that she might get in trouble so i dont want to annoy her while she is trying to get stuff done

Now, we havent talked in 2 weeks, I was going to stay after school today. I was just going to talk to her about how her break went. Also i was going to ask if I am making her mad at all, but she has no phone, and I dont want to have a serious conversation when this is the only time i get to see her and its a bad time to talk.

I have two guesses right now, because she unfollowed me from instagram, unfriended me on snapchat, and she deleted her facebook account. So i think her mom made her do this stuff, but she might be mad at me because of this., I think that she is getting bad grades in school and i am in one class that she is getting a bad grade in and I think she might of told her mom that I was a distraction. But her mom knows i am a really nice boy to her and i text her everyday. So her mom might not like me anymore, and everyone's just mad at me and i am so confused.

So should i talk to her at school today because i dont know if she loves me or hates me right now and this has happened before where i thinks shes mad at me and she is so happy to hear from me though when i do talk to her. We always make weird eye contact in the hallways too, she acts like she wants to talk and interact but is shy, and the shyness might not be because she likes me more than a friend.

Thanks for reading, I hope you can help. I hope it isnt too confusing for you. Just ask for more details if you need it

[Robert]

Wow, that's fucking confusing. I don't know what to say.
Look man, I'm going to keep it very simple for you, if you like her, stop messing around, just walk up to her and ask her out, say something like " I really like you, and I think you're really cool, I want to take you out " and if she says yes, then great, if she says no or makes an excuse , it will still be no, either way you have your answer. Don't do this over the phone, in person, and if she says no, leave her alone, never text her or call her, let her be.
Or second option, just leave her alone right now, its difficult, but it may have to be done, I don't know what to tell you, I don't know why she isn't talking to you, but just letting it go is always an option.
What ever your decision is, stick with it, don't double back or second guess yourself, don't ask whats wrong, don't ask if you did anything wrong, keep it simple, you have to keep it simple for yourself, if SHE wants to complicate things, let her do that.
So, ask her out and be cool about whatever response she gives you
OR, just give her as much space as she needs and talk to other girls.
If she talks to you again, great, if she doesn't, well, it sucks but let it go.
This is just advice.

[Lettuce be friends]

'Yes, very sensible... People die of common sense, Dorian, one lost moment at a time. Life is a moment. There is no hereafter. So make it burn always with the hardest flame.'