Is there any point in asking this girl out?
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03-21-2014, 10:42 AM
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Is there any point in asking this girl out?
I work in a supermarket part-time, and used to be 'work friends' with a female co-worker. We used to talk to each other quite a bit, and even though we were just work friends, I admit I definitely liked her.
Of course she had a boyfriend, so I respected that and didn't make my feelings obvious. However, one day she apparently suddenly quit (something about conflict with management, never did hear the whole story) and I haven't seen her since. She did add me on Facebook months before, but she deleted me after she quit. I realized this a little while later to ask if she was coming back. I was a bit surprised, seeing as I was the only co-worker she deleted. I did enjoy working with her, though, as we did talk quite a bit, but I doubt (very much in fact) she felt the way about me as I did about her. I'm also equally sure she didn't know I liked her. I did add her again, but she rejected me. I will admit that I noticed a few weeks ago that her status was that she'd broken up with her boyfriend (her profile is public). If she hadn't deleted me, I would've loved to have messaged her and hopefully asked her out at some point. Be brutally honest: would there be any point in asking her out? Ads |
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03-21-2014, 10:50 AM
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No
Summary: You talked when you worked together. She left & deleted only you from Facebook (of her former co-workers) You sent her a friend request & she declined. She's clearly not interested in maintaining any sort of contact with you. WHY would you even want to ask her out? Move on & find someone who's interested in you. Ads |
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03-21-2014, 10:57 AM
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I don't believe there would be a point. Believe me when I say I know where you're coming from with work-place crushes and the feeling of rejection. However, if she felt she wanted you in her life ( or even on her facebook page ) I don't think she would constantly reject/delete you off of it. All I can say is, let it go for now.
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03-21-2014, 11:06 AM
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Most likely she has no mutual interest in you. I'd move on from her and find someone that is attracted to you. I'm not saying 100% that she will rebuff you, but it's probable.
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03-21-2014, 11:19 AM
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no, i wouldnt bother, she doesnt sound interested
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03-21-2014, 11:31 AM
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Not a good idea, move on to someone more available and who has reciprocal feelings for you, this is a non relationship that won't go anywhere.
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