I can't decide on what I should do!?

[Abby]

I was on a social media site, and met this nice guy. The problem is that I'm 14 and he's 18, a legal adult. Which makes this illegal if we were to go out. And he also lives a bit far away. We already confessed how we feel for each other. And I just don't think this will realistically work out, knowing that my parents and surely his will have a huge problem about it. And not only that but the law. And before him, I met this guy that's only a year older than I am, and I planned on asking him out. But now there's this. What should I do? Please, a serious answer that is respectful.

[Patrick D]

too many obstacles to overcome to go out with 18 year old, the biggest being the law and its illegal. probably talk to the 15 year old is your best bet