I'm getting mixed signals from this girl and I'm so confused.?

[Anthony]

This girl and I started messaging each other on facebook and went on our first date and everything went so well. We didn't hold hands or kiss or anything because I tried to keep the first date classy. We had so much in common and talked and laughed and she said we should do this again and gave me a big hug. She texted me from morning to night every day and said she missed me while I was at work. She used to call me baby, honey, sweetie, etc. and sent me hearts in her texts too. We both told each other we really liked each other and talked about a relationship. She said she just wanted to make sure she wasn't wasting her time and I assured her she wasn't and I was interested. She told me she likes to play hard to get.

The next weekend we went to a party and I got hammered and she was just buzzed. We made out a few times and went to bed but we didn't have sex. All we did was make out and go to sleep. Ever since we spent the night together she hasn't been texting me as much as before and when I text her most of the time she ignores it. However, she snapchats me like twice a week and we talk for hours when she does. She said she still likes me but why does she ignore me every time I try to initiate contact? I haven't seen her in 3 weeks and every time I ask her to hang out she replies "Idk or I'm busy" or just ignores it completely.

It's like she is a different person now. I feel like she likes me but why does she ignore my texts and only talk to me once or twice a week. Her friends say she never talks about me so I can't tell if she is still interested or not. I feel like she's playing impossible to get instead of just hard to get.

Any help would be appreciated and thanks.

[expertgal]

I think I would text her that you think her feelings for you have
lessened, so if she'd prefer the two of you part to just let you
know that you don't want to bother her if she's not really
interested anymore. See what she texts back. That puts the
issue in her hands and maybe you'll then find out one way
or the other. If she's not interested, go find someone who
might be, don't sit around and pine over her.