My friend hates me, what should I do?

[Callie]

She really has a good reason to not like me to be honest. Today she confided in me that her mom was a lesbian and that her best friend, who lived with them was really her girlfriend and she didn't know it until she walked in on them kissing. I actually said "Eww that's gross!" And she got mad and walked away from me and hasn't talked to be since. She won't answer my calls, text, or Facebook postings, what should I do? I honestly didn't know what I was thinking when I said that but I did hurt her a lot though.

[.dead.]

Just give her a little space, and think about what you said so you can give a sincere apology (not that you haven't already). I know you regret saying what you said and you weren't thinking, so don't beat yourself up about it. She probably just needs time.

[KimmyPanini]

If she cant accept your opinions, then she doesn't deserve to be your friend!

God bless!

[Anika]

She took this waaaaaay to seriously. What came out of your mouth is actually pretty natural. You would say the same thing if she said her mom and dad were making out. I don't see what her issue is. Confront her at school and say you mean no disrespect, and if she rebuttles your efforts? Leave her. You've tried to reach out to her and she isn't responding. I can tell you're a great friend; she needs to let it go. Don't blame yourself; just try and control what you say. You never know when you meet someone really sensitive. Hope this helps. (:

[Chloe]

I'd say she just need her space and if you are truly sorry and she is your true friend she will come around! Just give it time honey

[Mark]

You are probably good friends a long time and you simply had a shock reaction. Call your friend and tell her you're sorry and that it was just more of a shock reaction that you shouldn't have shown but you are trying to understand things and really want to be friends. She probably really needs you right now because other people might not want to be friends with her at this time. I know of a similar case and it all worked out well but the first year was really difficult for the mother, daughter and friends of each. You friend might be having concerns she has not told you so she needs you. Once you get her on the phone, set a time to meet up and let her do the talking and listen to her and she might confide worries she has to you so be ready to embrace her emotionally. Years from now, you both might look back on this as a turning point in your friendship and how you were there for her.

If her mother was married and cheating then she did the wrong thing but if single and realized she is gay aka lesbian then she has her own cross to bear in life which is not going to be easy for her but is not her choice so this is a difficult situation for all of you but you can get through it. You sound like a really sweet person who simply had unexpected reaction.