Advice on this situation? Please!?

[Cassy]

About a year agao i was involed with a guy, and i broke up the relationship because he told some pretty serious lies. We broke up sometime in september, and ever since i have been worried about STDs. I got tested for STDs and HIV and everything came back good. The one problem is that, i did not know i had to wait 3 months 12 weeks before testing for HIV. I was about 2weeks short of 12 and am still scared. Some people say it was long enough and some say it was not. Since we wanted to have a baby it was unprotected, but am sooo glad i did not get pregnant by him. I feel so stupid for trusting him, how could i? Now i look at his facebook page, and i seen that he was in a picture with a pregnant girl. I also seen a picture of him kissing her belly. I guess i really don't have a question i just need some advice. Please. I know i was an idiot and you can tell me so if youd like. Thanks all.

[Yasimami]

In a couple of weeks you could have the test done again just to be sure. Also, before getting that serious with a guy you could both get tested for STDs to be more safe, and you must be really sure that it's serious and that he is faithful because its pretty nice to say you are going to have a baby, but those are decisions you have to live with for the rest of your life, for better or for worse, and you are going to have to deal with your baby's daddy forever even if you're not together.

Don't be sad about your loss, a better man will come along and bring you better times!