My Dad and my friend have flirty chats with each other on Facebook. Is it too far?

[Anna Thompson]

Hi everyone,

Well, I'm 23 and recently when i was using my dads computer i found out he has a folder where he stores flirty messages and video chats he has with one of my friends(!!) who is also the same age.

I know they added each other on facebook which i thought was a bit weird but this is completely beyond the mark.

It looks wrong but it isn't far enough..kind of. He's 54 and still married to my mom so it makes me uncomfortable.
Like, in his messages to her he tells her she's pretty, she looks beautiful in this outfit, or wearing this make up and they laugh and flirt but doesn't get any more explicit.

In their video chats shes always showing lots of cleavage or even lying down in a mini skirt/shorts so he can see her bare legs. She's all giggling and provocative and trying to tease him and unfortunately he looks like he's really lusting after her in a sexual way, and always hints at it to her.

Is this type of messages and video chat going too far? I don't mind them being friends on Facebook but this seems to be a bit much. She's attractive and has worked in nightclubs etc so maybe she's trying to bait him for money?

[Blue Planet]

this is creepy & gross talk 2 your friend about it

[Pali]

That sounds like they are going way too far. Confront him and see how he reacts. See how your friend reacts and then figure it out from there. Good luck <3

[Sarah]

Confront both of them!!!

[Anthony Corona]

i get facebook, that seems innocent enough. but video chatting and the fact that he is saving them? thats just weird. maybe confronting your dad and your "friend" let them know that you know whats going on.

[A]

tell your mother!!!! for gods sake!!! talk to everyone!!! NOW!!!

otherwise its worse if something bad happens and your mother says 'why didn't you tell me?'

[Arthur]

What he is doing is totally wrong and creepy and very unfair to your mother.

If you confront him, he will probably have a spaz and blame you and be very angry.

So the simple solution is to "accidently" format his computer when no one is around. Erase everything so it won't even boot. That will slow him down a little. Repeat as necessary.

[Ptvgirl]

That's fÏ…cking disgusting. Smack her ahhaha.

[whoever]

it's not OK, you should talk to your mum about it