Should I just commit suicide?

[Katelyn]

I'm a 14year old girl I have a few friends but they ignore me I feel totally isolated if I go on social media sites they sign off. I feel that I'm the least deserving and the most worthless person in the world. When no one needs me then there is no reason to be alive. I'm completely in the dark. I have lost everything in my life except these pains, disappointments etc. I really want to get rid of this kind of life and also there is no need to stay alive. It feels like that I'm gone. I don't know how my parents will feel but I think I should commit suicide. Should I do it?

[JazzersDraw]

Your previous questions say you are 13. This one says you are 14. Tell me: how does a year pass in a simple 40 minutes?

If it's your birthday, certainly you've had some type of happiness. If you go on social media sites you obviously have connection to internet, correct?
Some children I know have to take the public bus to school. This girl is called ugly by her own family members in a cruel way. Her left eye can never see right again because of an accident when she was in the third grade. She is constantly bullied and called fat, a zitface, and worthless. I've only know this girl for two months, and I can't even imagine the pain she suffers. But she continues to be happy.

I know a girl who was born by a drug addict and was practically abandoned because of neglect. This Christmas she didn't get any presents except for two small items from her aunt. This girl never knew how to live right. She is still learning.

I've seen a girl who considered suicide because of verbal abuse. Did she do it? No. Because she wasn't a coward. She wasn't stupid.

So just because you have socia media problems, don't think your not spoiled and that your isolated. "Losing everything in your life" is losing your parents, losing your identity of who YOU think you are as a person. "Losing everything in your life" is when you have no home, no clean water, no clothes on your back. "Losing everything in your life" is much MUCH more than social skills. Just because your a teenager (or supposedly a teenager) doesnt mean you need to draw attention to yourself and pity yourself. I've seen people who are worse than you. WAY worse than you. But they lived on and have a happy life. Amanda Todd was totally different. She lost the TRUST of everyone she knew. Everyone. Even her parents. She didn't have to commit suicide, but she sadly did.
Get new friends. Obviously these people are bitches. So leave them and stop pitying yourself and get a grip.

With Best Wishes,
Answerer #1

[ChibiDuck]

I know how you feel, but suicide is never the answer. I am treated the same online and i'm isolated from my friends. I'm always the person without a partner, the weird one no one talks to. But i'm gonna keep fighting and so should you. I'm sure you havn't lost everything in your life. Just hang in there and it will be better soon ok?xx

[Vortex]

I think JazzersD has said it all. I have nothing to add except cut out the pity party as no one is attending.

[Ann]

Hi. I agree with the first answerer about how your life is probably simpler and more painless than many others however I do not agree that your level of "sadness" is less than those who have harder lives. Depression is a crippling disease that can make life seem worthless and it can take out the pleasure out of everything. You may not experience a lot of "traumatizing" events but it may feel like you do. Please have a doctor check you if you are having suicidal thoughts. Don't be ashamed of asking for help because when one truly needs it there is nothing wrong with requesting aid. Please stay strong. Remember suicide is a permant solution for a temporary problem. If you are feeling like you should do it right this instant just keep postponing it a few minutes and let those minutes turn into hours and hopefully days. Don't do it; you will be missed, if not by your parents or by your friends know that you'll be missed, at the very least, by me. I wish you the best.

[David Hoang]

That Just Means You Need Better Friends. Not All People Are The Same. Theres Other People Out There You Haven't Met Yet. You Just Need To Make Better Friends. Besides, I Would Assume Any Parent Would Be Saddened By Their Child's Death.