My best friend is now best friends with my ex-boyfriend that harassing me?

[Rose Nixon]

My best friend met my boyfriend through me while me and him were dating. We broke up because he caused alot of problems in my life. Now that we are broken up and don't speak he has became friends with my best friend, I told the both of them it make me uncomfortable. My x began harassing me sending me evil messages and posting them on twitter for everyone to see. I dont understand how my friend can befriend a guy that put me thru so much, she was there for it all. I stop communicating with her but time to time she sends me messages saying she still considers me one of her best friends. What do I do?

[847]

You should forget her/him..It will not be the same thing as before ..Girl you should know today is HARD to find real person,real friend who will suport you in everything..I think that person is not good for you..But it's just me..you should wait for more answers..

[~M~]

You are smart for dropping both of them! Good for you! Ask your "friend" how she can possibly be friends with someone who is so mean and disrespectful to another human being. If she tries to argue that it's because he's nice to her, then tell her she needs to be a better judge of character. You should only be friends with good, moral people. If a person is nice to you, but an evil bastard to others, it speaks volumes of that person's character. Be weary of such people.

So, tell her that unfortunately, you cannot stand to be friends with a girl who s not only friends with the guy, but who'll stand on the side and quietly watch another girl, a girl she claims to be her best friend(!) get put down time and time again. You simply cannot tolerate such behavior.