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Did I overreact by crying and what do I do about this situation?(friends)?
03-24-2014, 08:09 AM
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Did I overreact by crying and what do I do about this situation?(friends)?
My bf Kyle broke up with me few months ago and I was devestated.My ex boyfriend was and still is my bestfriend.My best girl friend Lacie me and Kyle are all best friends and have been since around 5th grade.We are 16 now.Lacie told me a few weeks ago that she liked kyle and asked me if I was okay with that and I told her yes thats fine.I never actually thought that they would end up dating.Kyle also talked to me and was like are you okay with us dating? I told him yes because I didnt want to get in the way of anything and I was happy for them.Tonight I was on instagram and Lacie posted a picture of her and him kissing with hashtags like my love, love him, and best boyfriend.I couldnt take it and put my phone down and started crying.I said I was okay with everything but I think I lied to myself.Im not.What do I do?

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03-24-2014, 08:22 AM
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It's natural, you shouldn't be mad at them, Atleast they asked you first, that's what a real friend does. You should try getting a new boyfriend!(:

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03-24-2014, 08:33 AM
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If she was your true friend she wouldn't of done this to you. You have every right to be mad and upset. It's tough because they are both your friends. Always be honest with others and yourself. I know you said it was okay with you that they started to date but they should have known better. You are in a tough situation. Either get over it and remain friends or save yourself the heartache and distance yourself from them. Either way the best thing for you to do is to start dating. Go out with several boys and find someone you can be honest with and love. It's going to be hard but you have to stay strong and move on. Do not by any means try double dating with a new bf. it will only make things worse. Go find a new bf as soon as possible and let the two clowns have each other. I'm sorry this happened to you. You deserve better. LaCie should of known better and tell her that although you said it was okay, that she should of known it really wasn't. Tell her to put herself in your shoes and ask her what she would of done. Stay strong and find that new boy toy. Kyles a real jerk tho. Forget about him and show him what he's missing by dating around and having fun without them. They will be so worried about what your doing that they won't work out anyway and ultimately your friendship with Lacie will come back but he will inevitably loose you both. Good luck and go have some fun. You deserve it.
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