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HELP! How do I tell a guy who's in a relationship that I like him?!?
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03-24-2014, 08:23 AM
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HELP! How do I tell a guy who's in a relationship that I like him?!?
Ok, so a bit of a story here. Last year I went to this college, but now I'm at a different one because it's degree program is much better than the one I was at.
At my old college from last year, there's a sophomore (guy) who's in the same organization I was in and, I go back and visit the people in the organization because the university is in my hometown. So, when I go home I stop in sometimes and say "Hi". Anyway, this sophomore is really good looking, and I've found myself crushing on him since I first met him. He's good looking and seems like he's just a fun person to be around. (sidenote: we're both guys. I'm not a girl.) I added him on Facebook and we're Facebook friends, but we never really talked. Eventually, he requested to follow me on Twitter, so I accepted his request and I followed him back. Now, we tweet a lot back and forth, and I'm finding myself crushing on him super hard again. We, more recently, got each other's phone numbers and text from time to time. Nothing crazy or serious though. (Mostly about going to parties and such. Haha!) I've become better friends with this guy I like and go to his parties when I'm back home from my university etc.The only problem is that he's in a relationship with a guy right now and they've been together for 10 months now. They both seem to like each other a lot, but they do fight a lot (over petty stuff I might add). Also, his boyfriend graduates in 2014 semester....and sadly the guy I like is trying to speed up his own graduation so he can follow his boyfriend around post-graduation life. For this New Year's Eve he and his boyfriend invited me over to his boyfriend's house for a party they were having. We get along really well and chatted and such. At the party though the guy who I like and I were on opposite teams for a game of flip cup (Woo! College! lol) and we were bantering back and forth and having a good time with it. We just gelled really well. After this we watched the ball drop at their house, and I had to stand there while he and his boyfriend kissed each other. That was just heart wrenching, although his boyfriend whispered in his ear and told him to kiss me on the cheek...which didn't happen sadly. After the ball dropped we went to the bars and I was basically a third wheel for them...but they didn't mind. At one point, jokingly, the guy I likes boyfriend and his boyfriend sandwhiched myself inbetween them and danced on me. It was funny, but once again...the guy who I like and I clicked with each other and said the same sentence to each other at the same time and just laughed with each other. At one point the guy who I like and his boyfriend and I were discussing the types of people we've all dated. The guy who I like said, "I've only dated white guys." Mind you, I'm Latino. I told him jokingly to, "maybe expand his horizons" and he laughed and said, "Maybe I should." To which his boyfriend said, jokingly, I just broke them up. Too bad it wasn't true! Haha! Anyway, after that we went back to his boyfriend's house and chatted some more and then we all went to bed. I was on the couch in their living room though. Haha! (sidenote: we're both guys. I'm not a girl.) Regardless, him and I just get along with each other and it just feels so right...but he's in that relationship. And at times it seems like he flirts with me, but nothing hard core. SO...now I'm back at my house now and I'm totally having feelings for him again and I just don't know how to tell him and I don't know what to do with my feelings!! I find myself kinda saddened knowing he's taken. I mean...I REALLY like him. I'm on college break and have been snowed in lately and I have nothing but time on my hands to think about this and it drives me crazy. Does anyone have any advice as to how I should go about approaching this? ![]() I just need some help/advice. Anyone? Sound off please! Ads |
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03-24-2014, 08:33 AM
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Well, If he is in a relationship my example would be move on, now i know this isnt the easyist option because love is more stronger then just being able to forget about the person you love. Im in the same sort of situation, i like some girl, but shes in a relationship. for the moment im just trying to be her friend and hopefully if she becomes single ill be the first to snatch her up
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03-24-2014, 08:44 AM
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You don't approach it. He is in a relationship.
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03-24-2014, 08:52 AM
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No real offense but your details became tedious. if in fact you are all gay males, I won't even guess how you may all experiment, but if they are committed to each other you may only end up being a toy? I certainly wouldn't keep pursuing this.
I wonder when the word crush, in the context will fade into oblivion? Certainly not soon enough in my opinion. |
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03-24-2014, 09:09 AM
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dont be the hoe that ruins a relationship move on or wait and see if there relationship works out if it doesnt then you could aprroach him
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03-24-2014, 09:11 AM
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Well, If he is in a relationship my example would be move on, now i know this isnt the easyist option because love is more stronger then just being able to forget about the person you love. Im in the same sort of situation, i like some girl, but shes in a relationship. for the moment im just trying to be her friend and hopefully if she becomes single ill be the first to snatch her up
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03-24-2014, 09:26 AM
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Wow! this is really hard, but I think you have to make he trust in you, conquer hia friendship, I do the same with a friend, he was dating so i waited he break down with his girlfriend, I told him, but it wasn't enough, he is straight, but he kissed my face and tolde me we would be friends forever, He lied!! good luck!
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