Me and my bf broke up...He's really weird and creepy... Who do you think is right?

[Sasha]

Ok, let's call him "Nate". Nate asked me out about a week and a half ago or maybe two weeks ago. We went on one date, to the movies (the hunger games) which went fairly well. He paid for my ticket, which was really nice of him, plus after we walked around sellers just talking, and I started looking at the posters. I liked two, but I could only afford one, but he offered to buy me both, which was awesome and super nice of him. We talked a lot on FB, a little too much, for me. He messaged me all the time, about random stuff. I mean, he messaged me just to tell me that he was "in his basement watching his dad's friend play on their xbox". I needed to know that...why? Then, he got my cell # from a friend and now he txts me all the time about random crap, and he keeps texting me during class, which I get in trouble for. I told him to stop but he kept doing it. All he talked about was his xbox. I'm not into video games at all; he knows it, so instead of staying away from topics he knows I can't actually talk with him about, he decides to TELL ME ALL ABOUT EVERY SINGLE GAME HE HAS EVER PLAYED while I try to change the subject and fail miserably. I mean, his xbox is the only thing we ever even talked about- we had nothing in common. Then he started following me everywhere. I like being alone. I'm kinda a willing loner. Now he followed me to the library EVERY SINGLE LUNCH, keeping me from reading, doing schoolwork; everything I normally do, and like to do in my spare time. I know it's normal to spend time together, obviously, but I hated it. I wasn't used to being followed like that, and I never knew what to say to him because all he ever talked about was video games! So I sat there, bored, for the whole hour lunch period, every day. I couldn't even eat at lunch!

Then he started following me to where I sit and wait for my bus home, which is a FORTY MINUITE wait outside. I usually just read, listened to music or watched YouTube vids or something, but no. Now I had to listen to him talk about xbox games. He always tried to get me to sit on his lap, which I was EXTREMLY UNCOMFORTABLE with, and I tried making that clear to him. I mean, I know it sounds bad, but I didnt even want him there in the first place, I REALLY didnt want to feel his d*** on my ass.

Also, really creepy, since he asked me out ON FACEBOOK MESSAGER! he told me he loved me. I mean, the first time we ever talked. Ever. That was.... Not normal. Whenever I finally managed to get him to stop messaging and texting me he said bye LOVEEEE YOUUUUU! and I had to awkwardly say bye cuz no way am I telling this kid I love him. I mean, I never even talked to him before and I knew nothing about him.

He also FILLED my FB timeline with dumbass shit, and my family was like wtf is with this dude? And I had to awkwardly tell my mom that he was my bf and she was like, for how long? When I told her a week she was like......O_O same with all my friends, who thought it was weird.

Whenever I tried to talk to him about something, he'd change the subject to something that happened to him, or about his video games, or something related to HIM. I could never have a normal chat with him.

Finally, yesterday, I got fed up kind of. When he followed me to the library I was reading on my iPad, and I didn't stop. He tried to talk to me and I told him I was trying to read, and I did so politely, hoping he'd just leave. But, no. He sat there. So I switched to YouTube, popped my earbuds in, and watched some charlieissocoolike. He still didn't leave, so I tried to ignore him but it was really weird and awkward and I felt super uncomfortable. Then, after school, I noticed he hadn't followed me to my waiting spot, I was super relieved. Then I saw he was WAITING FOR ME, with some other guy that has some friends in common with me. I sat down and felt really weird and awkward and I just wanted them to leave so I could just chill, but Nate kept saying things that made me really uncomfortable. I can't really remember what but I hated it. He tried to get he to kiss him, and I wouldn't. I haven't yet and he keeps trying. But I don't like him. At all. I mean, I've tried breaking up with him so many times and he KEPT TALKING. finally, today he texted me like "we have to talk" and I'm like "no. We don't. Bye." and he got pissy and said stuff like "I changed my life you you you cu*t and stuff like that. I didn't text him back, but I mean COME ON. we dated of like, a week and a half. You DID NOT change your life for me. Infact, it was me that had to make all the changes.

So, sorry it was so long, but honestly I don't know what to think. I'm super relieved I don't have to deal with him anymore but also worried he'll tell ppl lies about me and stuff, which I could definitely see him doing. Who do you think is right? I mean, I tried to put

[Xzyl Xzyl]

Are you afraid for your life? If you are, then let someone know if you think he is crazy. But if not, I think you have handled it the best way that you can. You can only do so much when you're dealing with a weirdo like this. The best thing for you to do when he texts or calls you is NOTHING. Don't respond in any way. That is what he wants you to do. Don't even text him to tell him to leave you alone. Hopefully he will get the full message and finally leave you alone. If he keeps following you, then act like he's not there. Do not respond to anything he says, put your headphones on and act like he's the air around you. Do this and eventually he will go away but again, I must say, if he threatens you in any way, let someone of authority know so that you can get rid of this sicko. Don't worry about what he says to people. Just tell them that he is lying. That's all you can do.