All of a sudden, he is giving more attention to his wife - is it related to me?

[Jen]

Okay there is this celebrity that I know from a social networking site. We have been in touch for a few years now via his fan pages. He has replied to me many times and recognizes me by my face. He visited my city on tour and we met up to take photos. During his concert, he sang to me and made eye contact throughout. We chatted for a few minutes at a dinner after the show. We were staying in the same hotel and on the way to our rooms, he asked me to his room, I of course said no.

We've had small arguments on this site and when we did, I would stop writing to him and he would write all these sad posts or sing sad songs. Then when I messaged his fan pages again, he would cheer up and become more active.

I'm not sure if he was offended that I didn't sleep with him because after that he kind of stopped interacting with me. I was annoyed by his attitude and stopped writing to him. He went silent for a while and then did his sad songs. I still didn't write back. Now all of a sudden, for the past couple of days he started posting photos of himself with his wife or his wife with friends and I just don't understand the sudden change. He hardly ever did this before.

Do you think that this is somehow related to me or am I imagining things here?

[Jessica]

You do realize he is married right? just remember karma is a bitch!

[Drunkentank879]

You have a huge imagination.

[Pamela]

He wanted to use you for sex,you said no, so he has forgotten you now,he is using another silly girl for sex,when will you girls start using your brains?

[Jasmine]

You need to get out of this situation.

Get out in the real world and enjoy your life.

Whatever was going on here is unhealthy. He is a married man for goodness sake; did you not think about his wife at all; did you not think how she would feel.

He has probably done strung other women along.

Social media is ok providing it is used wisely. You young lady have just learned a valuable lesson.

[Tartersauce]

I think you're really reading into things.

[Amber]

Ok this guy is just looking for a booty call from a groupie..........period. Do you honestly think he gets sad when you don't go to his site and interact with him??? That would have just been a coincidence believe me. This is a guy who was going to cheat on his wife like it was nothing, Don't think for a minute that you would have been the first or the last.

Is this really the type of guy you want to be a fan of anyhow??

[Liz]

You're practicing for a career in creative writing, aren't you.