How can I let him know I am interested... subtly? 10 points awarded in an hr, desperate!?

[KrazyKia]

Long story short, I am 25, he is 26. We have never met. But we have a mutual friend who once told me he is interested, but I wasnt intersted at the time!!

Then later on, he started following me on twitter so we used to message each other for a while (DM), he mentioned something about his ex living in my city and I dont know... I just stopped replying. This was back in May.

I also stopped using Twitter for other reasons.

Nevertheless, lets get to my question! I can't stop thinking of this guy :/ its ridiculous because when I facebook stalk him, I dont even find him HOT, I just do it to see what he has been up to. FYI, we're not even facebook friends :-(

Now I was thinking of adding him on facebook with the expectation that he would inbox me... Im not one to talk to a guy first (shy and all that!).

Btw, I cant ask this mutual friend for help because he doesn't seem to think this guy is good enough for me anymore... i think the mutual friend is just really overprotective of me though. He is married though.

What do you think? Should I add him on facebook... or is this just nothing and it will pass next week... or next month! agh!
I think about him all the time. When I see a car he drives I look to see if its him.. and I often wonder if he does the same when he sees a car I drive. I always always think of him.

[ELISABETH]

If I was in your position, then yes I'd add him on facebook. I wouldn't expect for an inbox, but if a few days pass and nothing then I'd just message him something really casual like Hey, how've you been? Just a casual conversation to get things going :0) He's been interested before, so that definitely works in your favour. Don't worry about the ex, that's in the past. Good luck! X

[Joshua D]

Just tell him, guys like it

[Roses]

I mean, if you've never met, how is this supposed to blossom into something more?
Go ahead and facebook, if you're fine with that, and ask him to go hang out sometime. Pick something that is not lovey dovey romantic, but where you can be close enough with him without it being weird.
Offer him up a challenge to go bowling: "If you lose, you have to pay for "Subway", or "Pizza Hut". (whatever). If I lose, I have to pay."
Something that is not too demanding, but will be fun and physical. And this can go for a wide range of activities.

[Athena]

25?
Really?
I could have sworn we had this discussion at slumber party in middle school.

Good grief girl. What have you been up to the last 10 years? Do you think it just gets easier now that you are older? Look around you. The next generation of "cute party girls" is nipping at your heels. You are rapidly become the cougar in the room. You can't ride on your youth and beauty for much longer. You need to develop your "tricks of the trade." Our advantage over them is that we know a few things. All they know how to do is show up. Yea, that is a man's fantasy in the beginning, but then what? That thing you do is the reason he stays around. So, what is that thing you do?

As for Mr. Social Network, you are really trying to entice a man you have never met face to face?
If he did not move to the next level after your twittergate then you may have missed your chance.
I mean if you stop responding did you expect him to just chase after you? On Facebook?????
You blow him off, find him hot, and expect him to come on to you when there are 10,000 other gals in cyberspace each minute?

And you are 25 ("shy and all").
This is the real world and not middle school "He is Sooo dreamy" time.
You are NOT friending him on Facebook and have stopped twittering.
How is he suppose to even know you exist?