Should I delete him for Facebook?

[silly*red!]

I'm a grown up. But this totally makes me feel so immature and naive. I met this guy in college and when I met him, I was in such distress and meeting him, shaking hands with him, made me forget all of my sadness. I felt like I knew him in another life. I could tell he liked me too. Let me just tell u that eventually I slept with him. I know, big mistake. As two years went by, I'd see his carefree nature. But when I'd see him, I'd always get nervous. I shake. I tremble. My heart goes crazy. I graduated last year and sometimes I'd like his pics and comment and every once in a while, I'd PM him, especially when his cousin died. Eventually, I started seeing someone else. And now he is my bf. I guess this other guy didn't know. Way before I met my bf, this guy was PMing me about my business. So I invited him to an event. He lagged. Stayed home sleeping but as a good businesswoman, I was persistent until he came to an event with me. Thing is my bf went to. At this point I didn't think that guy liked me. I really thought he was interested in my business. He even bought some product but then I posted a pic of me n my bf on Instagram and he deleted me that day. He also deleted me from snapchat. He hasn't deleted me from Facebook. And that's where I come in. I wanted to talk to him in person so I can tell him how I feel beginning to end, but he ignored my message. I sent him a PM apologizing for leading him on where I told him not to reply. I keep having dream about him. Good dreams. Bad dreams. Sleepless nights depressing moments during the day. I love my bf. He's amazing. And I feel like a horrible person for having these feelings for this other guy who I don't think deserves me. Before I delete him, I wanted outside opinions of strangers. Honest opinions.

Should I delete this guy from fb even while sharing over 100 mutual friends? Or should I wait till he does?

Pros: he's a good friend/attentive/he's fun/handsome/he is looking for a serious relationship as he has never had a gf before
Cons: I was in love with him
I saw him flirt with my friends
He is very prideful and self centered
Major ego
Girls are trophies to him
Comes off as "Player"

[the wind]

never get on face book ever !

[nora]

You were the bigger person for apologizing- don't lose that winning streak now. Be civil and don't delete him.

[cici]

If you delete him, what are the odds of running into him again? Do you at all run in the same circles?

To me, if you can't be comfortable around a person, and you're nervous around him, that's bad. Like, you'd always feel off balanced and off your game around him. The drama around your relationship with him isn't really healthy. I would defriend him and cut him out of your life and separate yourself from the situation.

You have a boyfriend. And this guy drives you a bit crazy, not in a good way. Move on, he's not good for your life.

[Kevin W]

Your going to have to decide that for yourself. My suggestion is just dont worry about it. Does him being a facebbok friend or not really matter to your daily life? Its just a site to keep in touch with people. Unless hes harrassing you leave it alone.

[Chris]

First off let me say I'm not intending to be rude or malicious. You need a wake up call. You say your an adult but this looks like some crap posted in the preteen section. What are you 13? Get a grip! Delete the guy. Who cares if his feelings are hurt?You're not obligated to this other guy. Do you really think he's going to lose sleep over his hurt big boy feelings when you delete him? You're a grown up with a boyfriend that you say you love but you're disrespecting with all this nonsense. Either break up with your boyfriend and keep chasing this fantasy or pull your head out of your rear and move on.