I'm being bullied at school and home?

[Miranda]

I'm very short for a girl who is going to be a freshman next year and ever since before school I have been bullied because my height. Not to mention I have frizzy curly cue hair that I'm also bullied for to. Then I get home and I'm hit and pushed around by older brother and I cant do anything cause if I complain I'm called a tattletale and if I defend myself I either get in troible of get hurt by him then get on trouble for rough housing and my parents never let me share my side of the story. I'm also being cyber bullied by this guy on instagram called @antionedfamily because they posted a rude post and I informed that was rude so they said shut up little girl haha u go to middle schoolgo drink a juoce box or sonthing and I'm all ready crying and that doesn't help me plz help I'm crying right now.

[Delwin]

I've been through this too sweetie. Try to talk to another adult at school for example. They will help you and make everything better.

[quietbelieve240]

1) for your height: just reply that "guys like short girls HA"
* you can't change your height, so you really must embrace it. think positively.
2)As for your hair, comments often are made out of jealousy. would it help with products, maybe you could find some on sale and ask parents/present/buy some for yourself. Try to look up help online or ask your mom. hair care could even make you closer to your mom
3)Forget being called a tattletale, tell your parents anyway. If that doesn't stop him, stand up for yourself by talk to your brother.if no one listens, a counselor or pastor could be of help.
Remind your brother that no real man hurts a woman, no matter the age or size.
4)Cyber bullying: block that bully. Also, avoid commenting like that because honestly, online 'fights' never end, they just keep going. Don't let him keep you down because he doesn't even know you.

Crying is not bad, but when everything seems to go wrong, think of all the things you are glad for. Think of your friends who love you for who you are. Know your brother and parents love you deep down, and sometimes siblings do things they don't mean. Pick up a hobby or tv show to take your mind off things. Change what you can (your attitude, and your hair) and accept what cant be changed (height and your brother) You can't control other peoples actions, but you can control yours.

[eagersugar673]

It's okay to be short (I am too and I'll be a senior next year. However it did bother me at one point in time) you'll realize how awesome it is to be a shorty. You'll be able to wear heels with your future boyfriend and still be shorter than him and plus us short girls are cute . Anyway, I bet your hair is cute too! If you don't like it there are many ways to make it look better if you want like maybe straighten it or put it in a cute bun.
As far as your brother goes, siblings are going to be mean your best option is to ignore him he's probably just bored.
The instagram person- he's just being a troll. There is an awesome button on instagram called 'block' it works wonders People like that have nothing better to do an probably have a low self esteem about themselves. Ignore them. The only person that can decide how you view yourself is you. Who cares what other people think.

Since you will be going to high school next year the one thing that I can tell you is that you will absolutely have to learn to be tough as far as your standing up for yourself and confidence goes. It isn't bad like how it is on TV but some people are mean still. Confidence will be your best friend! Ignore what other people say and think about you because at the end of the day they have nothing to do with your future and your life. Once you graduate from school those same people that hurt your feelings and said mean things about you won't even see you anymore so what's the point in letting those people bother you?
Wow this was a long post but I really hope you do well in the future. Good luck! <3