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Help! Am i reading to much onto this?
03-24-2014, 10:20 AM
Post: #1
Help! Am i reading to much onto this?
I just finished school and this guy I knew who was my classmate asked about me from a common friend who is actually my best friend.I never usually talked to him when we were in school.We are never going to meet each other ever.I thought that I shouldn't be socially awkward and rude so we both were online at the same time so we started chatting. I was also chatting with my bff at that time.Then after sometime he asked me to not to be busy next day bcoz he wanted to catch up with me.I told my bff the same thing.

But surprisingly she was logged out of FB. And the guy was like all over my timeline commenting on all my photos like a stalker and then as if he was asking for suggestion he asked me comment on the pic which I think should be his cover photo.

I did that but yesterday I saw one of his friends had asked him if I were his GF. I felt totally disgusted and deleted my comment immediately. Am I stupid 4 over reacting.Does he like me? coz if he does I don't want to lead him on. I was never interested in him. He did comment something on the photo and his friend replied but then i think he deleted the comment.

It was very awkward. My friends say that I don't get boys even if they are saying that in front of my face.I feel really bad.I mean does he like me in that way?Am i right or wrong?

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03-24-2014, 10:24 AM
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Isn't it obvious to you? If he's chatting with you frequently like that, flooding your timeline with comments and what not, he definitely has a thing for you, and I have a feeling it's not the good type that you want to receive from him. Tell him that you honestly feel that he's coming across as stalkerish and it's making you uncomfortable. If he does anything else that makes you feel uncomfortable, you can block or limit the activity from him. Just follow your gut instinct. Make it clear that you just wanna be friends.

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03-24-2014, 10:27 AM
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Don't feel disgusted over this small matter. I guess you are shy so you feel awkward about a guy liking you but it's really wrong to think of a guy to be disgusting if he likes you.There are worst things a man can do when they like a girl and this friend of yours hardly did anything wrong to feel disgusted at him.
It will be a good idea if you have a talk with him. Ask him if he likes you and tell him that you only want him as a friend. Make it clear to him that you only want him as your friend and nothing more.

If he harasses you then you can find him to be disgusting. Harasses you as in, sends horrible messages to you, sends a dirty picture to you and give rude comments to your pics e.t.c., then you should block him.

For now, have a talk with him and clear things up.
Take care.
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03-24-2014, 10:36 AM
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It's kind of obvious that he likes you. If you're not attracted to him though, then tip the effing bucket and stop leading him on. 'Wanting to catch up with you'? Yup, you're going to have to lay it down on him straight.
I'm joking about being that harsh. If it embarrasses you to be thought of as his girlfriend, then you should ask him if he likes you nicely, and if he says yes, tell him 'sorry, but I'm not interested in a relationship and I don't want to lead you on.' Or something like that.
If you can't tell him in person, then that's what fu*king FaceBook was made for Wink
And if this doesn't help, I'm sure there will be some other smart f*ck answering after me... Or just google that sh*t.
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