My boyfriend has been liking this other girl's photos?

[Faye]

So my bf is 17 and I'm 16. We've been together for a few months now. He's so sweet and everything, but the one thing that bothers me is the fact that he likes other girl's selfies and snapchats other girls. Regular selfies are ok, but he likes girl's bikini pics and generally provocative pics and it makes me feel uncomfortable. He also snapchats this girl who sends him provocative mirror selfies. I know this because we were hanging out and he was looking through his snapchat and he got one from her, and he said "oh, it's *her*" in a "she's so annoying" type of way, and I said, "open it." He opened it without hesitation, and of course, it was a provocative mirror selfie. I scoffed at it, and my bf responded by putting it on the camera, putting his arm around me and pulling me in close, and taking a pic of the two of us as a response. I thought it was nice, kind of like, "hey look I have a gf." But I don't know...I still feel weird about her. I mean, if he thought she was so annoying, why would he even have her on snapchat? Why would he "like" her provocative selfies on instagram?

I feel like I may be over thinking it, but I can't help but feel a little jealous and uncomfortable. I hate to be the jealous, controlling girlfriend, though! We've only been together for a few months, and I'd hate to start being so controlling so early. But I can't help but dwell on this and feel weird about it, and I feel like I shouldn't be subjected to that. Should I confront him on it?

[Sophie]

If it's bothering you, you should definitely tell him, because it will only get worse if he doesn't know how you really feel.

[chubbydress457]

Just ask him his opinion on her one day.

I know you might not want to hear this but he may find her attractive. I'm sure you find other guys attractive as well, but it shouldn't be a problem since he's dating you and not her.

And pulling you in for the photo was really sweet and he definitely has no intentions of doing anything with the other girl, so you shouldn't worry. But still let him know what's on your mind and just have a casual conversation about her as you would with a friend about someone else. No confronting or assuming that he likes her.

[Mich]

You should definitely confront him and if he really did what you mention about snapchat and how he said oh its her. He can always block her.

[Bones]

Yes personally if it's constantly on your mind I think you should confront him. Tell him how you feel about her but also that you don't want to come off as the jealous girlfriend. Tbh though it seems like she's no competition to you in his eyes

[farah]

I'm 17 too and my bf (also 17) constantly snaps other girls and openly tells me that he did.. I pretend not to care because I don't want to come across as jealous but secretly I would love to delete them off his contacts.. It's hard to pretend not to care but sometimes you have to.. But I have said (to myself) that if he does keep doing it I will break up with him but I'm not at that stage just yet. Good luck

[Joel]

Because of the "her" this he said, it could mean two things. One, he really is genuinely annoyed by her and took the picture with you to make A point. But, given the other evidence you presented, it seems like, in his spare time, he might be flirting with her and other girls possibly. I'm not saying it's a definite, but it's possible.

Ask him nicely, don't raise your voice and if he says something you don't like, reply calmly. "Babe do you ever flirt back with her?" Or something of the sort. That's how my girlfriend and I solve our problems and we haven't had a fight since we started using that method. We've been together almost 5 years now! Hope everything works out between y'all.

[Miss]

it hurts i know i dont think hes the right guy.if he was he wuld never look at other girls.

[Ewan]

I agree with Sophie. This happened to me with my girlfriend. She was concerned as i was liking other girls' photos, she talked to me. I had no idea how she was feeling and changed right away. She talked to me last week about how she was glad i stopped liking the pictures. If he is a decent guy he will take your concerns on board and stop and focus on you.
Hope everything wotks out. X