I'm not completely sure she doesn't want me?

[Squirt]

I dated a girl a while back but it was bad time for me so I ended it. It wasn't for a bad reason so we were able to remain good friends. I'm finally ready for a long-term relationship but she can't because of her schedule and I'm not entirely sure that's why she turned me down. She did also say she lost feelings for me. She told me it was sweet and that she was glad I told her but I just didn't expect this because we had a beautiful relationship. I treated her so well and she fell in love with me pretty quick.

Judging from her Facebook activity, she seems to realize we reject and get rejected and when we finally want each other, something messes it up. and I don't know if her recent status has a connection. They're lyrics that talks about if she fell for someone and gave her heart out, would her heart be treated right. These kind of things make me feel like she hasn't made up her mind and she shouldn't post these things knowing that I can see them and that I may think it has to do with me.

I get that she doesn't have feelings for me anymore but that's because she has plenty to keep her busy with and we haven't seen each other in a while. Couldn't she fall for me again if she thought about what we had and we began seeing each other again? Should I wait until she isn't busy anymore? Would you turn down someone who was pretty much everything you wanted without having to worry about another breakup?

[Fuji Syuske]

I recently went through the exact same situation so I can truly relate to how you feel. Let me tell you that if you treated her well and made her happy but she still doesn't want to be with you, that is her loss. You deserve better. You sound like a good guy and I'm sure plenty of girls would love to be with you. As for the facebook activity, maybe she's scared of being hurt? Has she had any bad experiences with intimate relationships before she met you? My advice would be to talk things out with her. I suggest pouring your heart out to her and letting her know that you really love her and want to be with her. If she rejects it, then give her some space and let her think about everything you 2 had together. There is a good chance she will come back and want to start a relationship. If not, don't let this hold you down my friend. There are plenty of other girls out there. I know it is hard to move on and it may seem hopeless now, but give it time and I guarantee you'll be happy and would have found a girl who really loves and cares about you. Trust me and good luck. Hang in there. I wish you the best.