Jealous boyfriend -- Is this typical behaviour?

[EmoDinos]

Am i allowed to go to my best girl friend's house with out getting the third degree??

Anytime I ask if I can go over, my boyfriend asks me: "Why do you want to go over there, why dont you just tell her to come here" (which she does, she comes over, more than i go over there)

And I respond: " well I just dont feel like hanging out here, I want to hangout with her at her place"
To which he reponds: "Why, what can you do over here that you cant to here?"
I say: "Nothing, i just want to go over because i want it to be just us two, so we can have girl talk"
He says: " Why can't you do that here, are you going to talk to her about me? What are you guys going to do? What are you going to talk about.. Who's going to be there??..."

It just escalates from there... "You are just going so you can get away from me,.."
And I get guilt-tripped all the way over there..

Does everyone do this?? Am i overreacting?? I feel like I'm crazy, making a big deal out of nothing..

[Tigrou]

your not crazy i do that too

[Lauren]

Geez. That's super controlling behavior. That's not okay. I think possibly borderline abusive...I say get away. Get far away.

[Intellectualmice304]

GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT!!!!

That is step one of an abusive relationship.

Drop him, block his number, block him on social media. If you have ownership or are the one paying rent on the house/apartment, you get to stay, he does not. When he is out somewhere, dump his belongings outside and get the locks changed. If he is the owner/renter, go find a place to stay that is safe and do not let him know where that place is, do not tell him you are leaving, just pack up and go when he is out.

If he will not let you see an old friend, then who's to say why he can't keep you from going to the grocery store, to a job, or to your parents? He is emotionally abusive to you, and it will only turn physical if you stay with him. YOU DESERVE BETTER.

[imapain013]

He's not being "normal". If he doesn't trust you to hang out with YOUR friends, and if he is trying to exercise that much control over your social life, this is a concern.

You are not over reacting. I would highly suggest talking to him, and see if there is some underlying concern or fear he has. If he simply doesn't trust you, then there is a problem that won't be easy to solve, if it can be solved...

Please, don't let him push you around like that. You have the right to have a part of your life that is independent from him, and he should cherish you no less.

Good luck, and please take care