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Don't know what to do anymore?
03-24-2014, 10:24 AM
Post: #1
Don't know what to do anymore?
Hey guys, I'm feeling really down right now.. I'll explain what happened, I'm sorry if it's so long but it's the only way for me to explain things in detail..


So I was coming back from work Thursday night, walking to the bus stop and a girl already standing at a bus stop asks me for directions. Surprisingly, the place she needed to get to was just a few bus stops away from where I live and she was really beautiful and I was tired from work so I couldn't think straight and I told her what bus to get and then I carried on walking to the next bus stop.

It seemed like she was still confused after I told her what bus to get and as I was walking to the next bus stop I wanted to walk back to help her properly but as I got to the next bus stop, I stood there and then I saw the same girl walking up with another girl who is trying to help her find what bus she has to get to go to her destination.

I then approached her and told her I live near to where she was going and then we got on the same bus.
I sat behind her on the bus and when we got off, the bus stop was crowded. This was at 12:30am and when we was waiting in the cold and the rain, she got her big scarf out (blanket size) and she covered her head and shoulders then asked if I wanted to come in it too and I said yes then we were covered up with her lovely scarf and her right arm was touching my left arm and we were next to each other under that scarf.

She told me that she just came back from a concert with a few friends and was a bit drunk. One of her friends took her phone at the concert and forgot to give it back and she somehow got lost from them and that is how she was by herself at the bus stop.

She asked to use my phone to contact her friend and I let her use it to log into facebook. After she was done, I asked if I could add her as a friend and she said of course and I added myself using her account.

We got on the second bus, got off at my stop as she needed to change for another bus at where I live and I waited with her at the bus stop for around 10 minutes (this was at 01:20am) and then when her bus came, she turned round and gave me a hug and thanked me for helping her get to where she needed to go and it was nice to get a hug from a pretty girl like her and she said she will message me.

I waited for her to message but she didn't so the next morning I messaged her at 12:00pm asking if she was okay and if she got her phone back and she seen my message at 20:30pm but didn't reply and what hurts me most is that she posted photos from last nights concert at around 22:45pm and she still hasn't replied to my message Sad

I sent her another message today saying I'm the guy from Thursday night and asked if she stills remember me.. but she keeps coming online and offline on Facebook but hasn't seen or replied to my messages yet.

Was she just being nice to me when she offered to share her scarf with me?

Could she just of been drunk that nice and was just nice and after waking up she sees me as a total stranger?

Any opinions would help a lot, thanks!

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03-24-2014, 10:30 AM
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Sorry to say but she probably forgot about you! She was drunk, right? Happens, You know what? If she replies, someday, you don't reply and get her really angry about it. Answer her after her 50 something message and something may start. If not, don't worry. You'll get someone better!

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03-24-2014, 10:37 AM
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She looks like she doesnt exactly remember you. Try telling her what happened and hope she remembers you. Hope this helps!!!!!!!!!
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03-24-2014, 10:43 AM
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Idk man maybe she was drunk and forgot..just remember you guys just met and became friends on facebook so she probably didnt reconize your name cuz it was new to her..theres many reasons to this..maybe she was to happy and being nice to you cuz yu helped her ..but dnt wait for her lol theres other beautiful girls man
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03-24-2014, 10:52 AM
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It sounds like she appreciated the help you gave her and she intended to talk to you but maybe upon sobering up realized that she wasn&#x27;t interested. Some girls are very nice and seem interested in person and then act like they don&#x27;t care behind closed doors. If I were you (and I&#x27;m a girl so I know) don&#x27;t keep messaging her especially if she has seen your messages because you don&#x27;t want to seem desperate. Give it some time and maybe she will come around and message you back. If not then maybe wait month and give her another shout. If she was just being nice then sending her multiple messages will not make her any more interested but will only bother her. From experience she may have just been busy. Or she may want to play it cool nd wait a bit before responding or she just may not respond at all. Either way if its meant to be it will happen just give it some time.Id really appreciate if you could answer my question I don&#x27;t have the link but If you click my name its my last question.
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