Bf keeps adding random babes on facebook?

[Blaire]

Bf of about 8 months keeps adding random girls dressed provocatively, boobs and all on facebook. We don't have each on facebook but I checked his page yesterday and saw that the last 10 people he added were all random girls. I showed my friend and she said it was disgusting and creepy. I confronted him about it last night and he kept denying he ever added them and that they added him which gets me wondering since when do random girls add guys on facebook and since when are they all hot and half naked? He then went on to say that he doesn't talk to any of them and that I was the only one he chats with. He said I was being silly and jealous. I would expect this behavior coming from a 17 year old but not a 24 year old man. I have guy friends on facebook who never add babes as much as he does. Not sure whether it is an ego thing for him but it is a little bit of a turn off.

What are your thoughts?

(annoyed gf)

[Sgtc]

If you don't trust him, i would suggest looking through his fb, you might not like what you find, or you might find nothing.

[Thought Officer]

He..might actually be telling the truth, though I don't know. Does he actually know any of them? You guys do know some good chunk of facebook profiles are fake spam bots that just want to send automated porn links, right?

They always use some stock photo of a hot chick they probably stole from some other site, set up some half assed profile and start auto-requesting everyone their algorithm can find. He's not chatting with them because they aren't real people. The fact that he accepts the requests and believes it to be a real person is somewhat suspect of his detective abilities, but then again I guess they fooled you too. I suppose it has to work on somebody or nobody would bother writing programs like that.

But..if he knows these girls in real life...well. That would be interesting.

[Killy]

Ay... the first and biggest problem is that you guys are not friends on FB, and that yours and his status needs to say "in a relationship." I have seen many girls that want to be popular or famous put up those kinds of pics, and set up their FB more like a fan page, so they end up with a lot of guys as their friends and never even know them. It is immature of him to request/accept them but it doesn't mean outright that he is doing anything wrong. It is a turnoff that he makes it so obvious, I agree lol. You may be jealous, which is normal, but he is the silly one. If you want it to work, I'd be quiet about this type of thing and pick your battles. Wait for something concrete to question, you know? Ask to get FB official, and if he refuses then you have something to be upset about.

[Natalie]

Don't mess around and get your heart broken. If you think this is wrong confront him again. You know he added them and he is denying it. There cant be love without trust. You have to keep trying until there is nothing to try for. don't be reluctant to stop the relationship now and find someone who cares for you. if he is lying and looking at other women, he dosen't deserve you.

[melissa]

Check the profiles. I get a lot of girls like that that try to add me and I'm a girl. He should be filtering his friend requests but sometimes i blindly just accept and then go back and I'm like who the heck did I just add. So go on their profiles it could be a fake profile to try to sell stuff or stupid things like that.

[2ffy]

Did you check their profiles? I also get random friend requests from bitches I don't know and their profiles are fake.You can tell if a profile is fake by simply going through it.If you see a babe with one picture only or no info whatsoever on her, then it's a fake profile.

[Abril]

Why aren't you guys friends on fb?? It doesn't make sense. And next time check his messages and see who he chats with. If there's no trust in your relationship it will go downwards. I hope everything works out fine and good luck!

[Invader Zim]

Stop being paranoid. My mother figure is all over my dads business about that shit. All she does is cause drama. Overreacting about nothing. My sister and I hate our "mother".

[PEGGY S]

He has to add them for them to be his friends. He is lying.