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Is it normal not to have a circle of friends but rather to have friends scattered all around?
03-24-2014, 10:28 AM
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Is it normal not to have a circle of friends but rather to have friends scattered all around?
It's a bit hard to explain, but I seem to not have this tight group of friends you see on TV and facebook pictures where you have let's say 5 guys always hanging out together and are all "bros".

My friends are rather scattered around.

I'm more set up like this:
I have 1 friend I go to the gym with.
1 friend that I go to music bars with
1 friend I go to clubs with
1 friend I go ATVing with
3 friends I play soccer with
1 friend I play guitar with
You get the picture...

It's like we're not really a gang, it's just random friends with random interests, most of them don't even know each other.

Is this the normality after high school?
All these friends I mentionned, I know very well and am close as friends can be. It's just that they aren't close to each other.

I know that it would be best to actually have a circle of 4-5 friends, but how is this possible when they are all very different and don't really see eye to eye. All these guys I mentionned would NOT be friends with any of the other ones.

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03-24-2014, 10:29 AM
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Perfectly normal.

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03-24-2014, 10:38 AM
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If u ask wether its normal or not.. well it is..
But if u ask wether this is good or not .. I don&#x27;t think it&#x27;s a very good idea...
U can try for example ask ur gym friend to play soccer or vice versa. At least just to let they know u have other friend rather being alone...
The truth is u dont need to have thousands of scattered friends.. having 1 2 or 3 friends that trully know and care about u worth 10 millions of fake friends ..
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