HELP! I cant stand my wife anymore.?

[jollyspoon845]

She is such a Bitch these days. And lies constantly about little things. For example today when she got home from work she walks in and just walks right past me. Goes right to the bedroom and gets online like she dose everyday. I ask her why is she ignoring me. She says. I said hi when i walked in. Ummm no she didn't. Why lie about that? Then she gets super defensive. Calling me names. Telling me don't start my stuff. Stop acting like a baby. It just goes on and on. She also gets upset over everything she dose. She was cleaning off the stove because it had sugar on it. Ok fine. But she gets so upset over that she calls me names all kinds of stuff. That sugar was not from me. It was hers. It was by the coffee maker. I don't drink coffee. Its as if she looks for a reason to complain or fight with me. She also always says to me. That i do nothing around here. And follows that with. Oh i forgot you cant. You see i have some serious health problems that will eventually end me. so yeah. Sometimes getting up just to go to the bathroom is a challange. And she blames me for me health problems. She always brings it up in every argument as if i got ill intentionally. As if its mu fault i am not well. Everytime she says that i just want to just slap the hell out of her. Its so offensive to me. Its my hot button. She knows this too. Its like she gets a kick out of ticking me off. And when i do lose it and get real mad she starts laughing at me. She thinks its hilarious. Oh man dose that ever piss me off. When she dose that every bone in my body wants to bash her head in. WTF is her problem? We stopped being intament almost a year ago. I bring it up she always says. She dosent want to do anything like that with me or anybody else. Which i dont belive. And the fact that she makes a point to say not with anybody else makes me think she is guilty of something. All she dose everyday is come home after work, immediatly jump on her comouter and i dont see her again untill bedtime. And if i try to talk to her at all its always an argument similar in nature to what i mentioned above. She acts like she hates my very presence. She says no, she says she loves me and wouldnt be here if she didnt. But. Her actions are speaking louder then her words. I don't believe her when she says she loves me. She is so bitter, its gotten to the point that if she didnt come home from work one day i wouldnt even care. My health issues force me to rely on her. So i am stuck here. If i wanted to walk away from this i couldn't. If i did i would be homeless because i am not able to work. But at this point i am starting to feel as if living homeless on the streets wouldnt be as bad as living here with this bitter woman. She has also turned my family against me as well. They love her to death. I haven't seen my friends in years. They don't come around because they don't want to be around her. Her own parents don't even want anything to do with her. What is her problem? I want out of this. I cant stand her. But like i said with my health issues i am stuck here. My only options are live here with this bitch or take my chances on the street. And with my poor health i doubt i would last long on the street. But i still think it would be happier then i would be if i stay here. What can i do? I have no way out. I need some advise. Got any ideas?? And yes we did the marriage counseling thing. It actually made it worse. I am just done with this. I want out. I am just way to dependent on this woman to just walk away. Like i said before. My health problems are going to end me. The doctors say maybe a year or so. I don't want to spend what time i have left like this. Got any advise?

[the_silverfoxx]

get a divorce that take care of it

[michaellesamuels]

You said you have a family. Can't you go with them? What do you mean homeless? Aren't there in the US some kind of solutions for people who are ill with no family? Or aren't there by law some family obligations, like your relatives should help you out? Look your wife may be stressed hugely by the situation because she is unable to cope, and at the same time that doesn't detract from the fact that you don't feel loved. I am sure that she loves you the way she can...but there must be other options, at least temporary. Couldn't you go and stay few days at some friends, at your siblings or parents if you have, or relatives? Explore the options, even for a few days it may do you and her good, it may get her to think...

[Red Barron]

Wow, that sounds like a very difficult situation, my heart goes out to you my man. If you have ANY family, maybe you should explain this situation and beg to live with them. Or if not, you should try getting on government assistance. I know there's a stigma attached to that, but someone in your condition IS entitled to it. You could at least get a small crappy apartment and some food stamps. ANYTHING beats your current situation. Sounds like you're wife is bitter and frustrated over your condition and instead of being a good, supported person and sticking to the whole "in sickness and in health" thing, she's proven to be an evil b!+ch. You HAVE TO move on. Good luck to you sir.

[Good Life by Love]

make a business a home so you can make money so your wife can stop working. seek anger management. Then couples counseling

Arguing is normal but is it good, no, so make sure it is 7 years no arguments. After 7 solid years of perfect marriage then a child if desired.

If things are minor I usually just wouldn't even give it a second thought. If it is major I just fix it the best way and that's it. Maybe this will be a good method for you guys. Always reinforce it with Love

Also I see premarital counseling working.Church usually has it for free. You can even attend after marriage.

Make sure you protect your family from outside by working only and your wife is a stay at home mom. NOTE if she makes double your wage, you better stay at home instead and do the cooking cleaning and so on. If you work you can do all the home manly things. If plumber or whatever needs to go to the house make sure you see them the whole time. Make sure you have a hospital or office with only females. Give love to your wife always and hear her out and then you have to make the decision. Also be responsible for the family. Make love to her as much as she wants, make sure she is always satisfied as you too will be satisfied. Be attentive to the kids and your wife. Make sure you save, pay your car with cash, your house with cash and then retirement. Make sure you raise your kids right to be good adults. What every your handling there's no need to tell your family, just make sure you on the ball so you can get it back and score. Make sure you stay fit, try to be handsome even if you think it is silly or waste of time or you think you don't. Take a shower 1 to 2 times a day. Make sure you smell good. Make sure you have good breathe. Make sure you go to the restroom when she is not around for number 2 or 3. Make sure you are organized. Make sure you dress decent at all time (wear the favor t-shirt with holes under your other shirt). Make sure she knows she is appreciated and important to you and the family. If it is her or them it is always her as long as it makes sense. They can always be second, but she is first. MUST make sense. When she is not right on some things or don't remember just help with a quiet mouth. By all this your married life if you choose will be a fulfilled one.

White Knights never argue, but knights make their women proud and want them. Make sure you have everything ready. I mean like saving for a 6 month rainy day and then increase that as much as you can as time goes on. Buy a house cash small to start and then bigger when you decide and ready to have a child so the child can stay in one community for their whole school life and a place to come home always during Holidays and for you to plant your plants and watch them grow and to grow old in, make sure to pay cash or go smaller if needed or just wait on the child/bigger home, peace is most important. Your wife should always have access to cash and a good amount. If you can it is better you balance the books. Pay that car cash, used or new. Pay the vacation cash and have your retirement ready, remember to diversified in many ways not just many stocks but many ways. NOW if you want to use some credit cards because of perks then make sure to place that cash aside in the bank account so when the statement comes cash is already waiting
On another note: Try your best. Love like you never love before. This is the best way for love to come and start surrounding your life. May love be around you, through you and is you.

Love and the Good Life will come

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