Should i stop talking to her? i know shes worth it but. help?

[kingmb22]

My gf hasn't talked to me in many days. She recently had surgery and im worried. last month her mother went through car looking for a "calculator" and found weed in her car. My gf said she could not talk to me anymore because her mom and my girlfriend of 3 years and 2 months thinks that it was mine. I have never done drugs. I'm 17. Going to be a nurse and I would never put her in that type of position. She didnt speak to for at least a day and then when she did she messaged "I don't want to be with you ever again because I just found out that you cheated" first off I didnt cheat. She saw something on twitter from 2011. she told me that her mom stalks my twitter to see if I message her. we got back together. were amazing til she said that 35 guys messaged her in 5 minutes. Then she searched a guy on instagram and said this was the guy trying to hit on her. I was a upset and I messaged her that I was a bit upset and wanted to figure out why is she searching other guys when she would leave me if I ever did that and she just said I was messing around and then she text me and said that she is done the day before she had her surgery. And she blocked me on everything. For her mom I put my twitter on private because it was obvious her mom was still checking my twitter and later her mom text me and asked if I was talking to her and I did not reply. Its been a week since then and I just couldn't take it anymore. I texted my gf and said I hope you can see this with a cry face. And her mom texted me that she gets the messages I send to my gfs phone on her phone. And I said okay I'm just worried about her and miss her. Her mother told me that I'm being ridiculous and she'll tell my mom If I talk my gf and that she won't pay her daughters tuition if she ever talks to me and she will kick her out. Then she said my gf had her reasons on why she doesn't want to be with me but my counselor and others think its her mom causing this. We're about to be 18. she's worth it. I love her

[Katelyn]

No still talk to her and ignore her stupid mom most parents are happy when ppl care for her
Can you pleaseeee help me
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[heley]

just sit down with her, only her, not her mom, and talk to her. if she really loves you she would believe you.

prove to her that you dont cheat, buy her favorite things for her, spoil her, treat her like she's the one, just make her believe that she is the only one for you.

then tell her that you dont smoke, i mean she should know if she's your gf

good luck!

[Alexandra]

I took the time to read yours so please read mine.

This sounds like it could be one big misunderstanding
or your girlfriend needs major help. She could be influenced
by her mother to say these things or pressured from her
friends or just confused with who she is. But to be completely
honest, I'm 17 too but I'm going on 30. I know how people
act and respond and how to read their body movements and
facial expressions. What I'm getting from reading this is your
girlfriend probably doesn't want to be with you but doesn't know
how to tell you that. Girls want to know that you appreciate them.
They want to make you jealous because it helps reassure them
you care. I would suggest, even if it pisses her mother off, you
go see her in the hospital and confront her gently so to not come
off as a jerk. Or pull aside her mom and tell her straight up
that the weed wasn't yours, you don't understand why she doesn't
like you so much but you would like to know so you can fix it
(thats only if you think your girl friend is really REALLY worth it).
Appearance goes a long way. If your girlfriend is a sweet girl next
door type and you're covered in tattoos and piercings, I would suggest
taking them off for a day, pulling up your baggy pants, and showing
up in a nice pair of khakis and a dress shirt, maybe even a
small SMALL bouquet of flowers. You want to show you care but
not look desperate. You know her and yourself better than I do
but this advice should go a long way.

Good luck, I hope this helps, and I hope everything works out for you.
But my major MAJOR words of advice would be to move on.
She doesn't sound very worth it to me. You need to find someone
who will respect you and explain why she's not talking to you and
has a family that will respect you as well. Your heart sounds big so
it shouldn't be too hard to find someone with the same aspirations.