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Boyfriend lied about deleting his ex gf off facebook?
03-24-2014, 10:37 AM
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Boyfriend lied about deleting his ex gf off facebook?
I dont know what to do, he kept this ex, which he dated for a week (they dated, than after 3 months started dating me), on facebook, she keeps liking his statuses and pictures, and its bugging me..
This girl and her friend called my boyfriend and his best friend to come over at 3 am, and he refused, and he admited that to me 3 months after that happened.

We fought 3 days ago about this, mainly because i was anoyed by her, and he told me about month ago that he deleted her, when we got in huge fight about her, and 3 days ago i found out that he didnt.

He told me that this is a matter of principal, and that I cant command him..

I got so angry, called him, and we started arguing about it, he said "OF COURSE I DIDNT DELETE HER, what were you thinking??".. I was so mad, I told him that i dont want anything to do with him, that we are thru etc etc, he calmed down and told me "What can I do to make it up to you", and i told him that i cant trust him, he has been lying to me, and that we are over. He said "Dont say this..."and he hung up on me.

3 days have passed, and nothing, not a word from him, I deleted him off facebook, blocked on skype, when i was angry.

Its normal for us to scream and yell at each other,but he usually calls the next day... even if i break up with him, he somehow knows he is wrong, but nothing this time..

I dont know what to do, this hurts me so much, and if there isnt this girl everything would be perfect. All the fights we had are about her...

I just dont know what to think
Oh yes, and i found out that his best friend came over to my bfs house with thoose two skanks and they sat on his computer on facebook in his bedroom
We are together 2 years
I know it is facebook, but if he is lying to me about stupid facebook, what is next??

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03-24-2014, 10:38 AM
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Big deal. It&#x27;s Facebook.... Listen to yourself

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03-24-2014, 10:39 AM
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If he really love you he will try to get you back. If he doesn't try to get you back, forget him.
It's not easy to forget someone you've been in love with but you can try.
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03-24-2014, 10:49 AM
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Sounds like he's not your boyfriend anymore anyways, so now you can move on to something more important.
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03-24-2014, 10:55 AM
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1 week of dating vs. 2 years?
There's a reason he's been with you for two years and only dated her for a week. It's not really fair to expect him not to speak to someone because they dated once. Maybe she's friendly with him, but if he loves and respects you then he won't do anything wrong. He hasn't cheated on you and I expect the reason he didn't tell you about her calling him or him not deleting her is because he knew you'd go mad, but he didn't want to just do what he was told without a proper reason, other than you not liking her or her making you feel insecure. Show him that you can trust him and he will be much more likely to listen to your opinions. Maybe you can talk to this girl, be friendly to her, don't accuse her of anything. Maybe she's just friendly. And if you treat her fairly and she does have different motives, she might back off just being reminded that he's in a good relationship.
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03-24-2014, 11:01 AM
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I think your wrong. He hasn't cheated on you. He has done literally nothing. I think you were a little jealous (perhaps rightfully) but I think the fact that he only dated her for a week should probably tell you that he evidently isn't interested. The reason he hasn't called is because you BROKE UP WITH HIM. If you broke up with him, and you want the relationship to continue, it almost goes without saying that you must call him, or move on. If you would really end a relationship based on the fact that he wouldn't delete someone on Facebook, it would only give out the message that you are insecure and shallow. Whether or not this is true, thats up to you to decide, but reading your question it certainly made me think it. 2 years of relationship, of him not cheating on you and being faithful (yes he was), thrown away. Waste. Surely this so-called 'skank' would only come out on top if you quit now. It's up to you to save what you and your (ex)boyfriend have together, it certainly isn't his responsibility. Time to admit you might be wrong (even if you don't think so, it will just make life that much easier for him knowing that you have some sort of humility)

Good Luck Mila
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