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What do I do about this guy? HELP?
03-24-2014, 10:37 AM
Post: #1
What do I do about this guy? HELP?
I'm not the kinda girl who normally asks for help, but everyone I've spoken to has given me a different answer.
There's a guy, who's a friend of a friend but I never knew him that well, and when I moved to Uni, he moves to the same city and we get I touch. We have very similar tastes in music. So we start talking everyday and I fall completely he's over heels for him. I thought he felt the same way- then BAM. Nothing, ignoring me. I felt like such a clingy loser Sad but I kinda got over it.
Until, he pops up on my Facebook saying hey, and I naturally reply. I then mention the whole ignoring thing- and he apologises and said he didn't mean to and that he's thought about me loads.

So we start talking and then bam it happens again. Nothing.

I want to know - why won't he talk to me, why won't he acknowledge me when last week we spoke everyday? And what can I do to get over it, get him back or just be able to act with him when I see him on New Year's Eve! WHAT DO I DO!

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03-24-2014, 10:39 AM
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he will keep treating you the way you allow him to treat you. so the best thing you can do is move on from him. if you see him out and about, you can be friendly but do not expect a relationship with him. if he sends you text message, wait a day to respond (but do respond, no reason to be rude). chat with him on facebook if he is on the same time as you. but do not, put all your interest into him. if you keep just waiting around for him, you will end up being disappointed.
if he starts to stay in touch with you on a daily basis you can change the rules. for example if he text you more than three days in a row, you can start responding to his text that day.
but you two you need to eventually talk about what is going on between you two. if you two are just friends or a possible couple. because if he wants to date you, then he is going to have to make more of an effort. if that is not what he is into, then at least you will know and can move on.

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03-24-2014, 10:44 AM
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I wish I knew what happened to him, but history seems to be repeating itself. I would bet it happens again. Just say no, and move on. He is just too strange.
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