why doesnt he want me to shave down there?

[k h]

a guy im into told me he likes it when girls have hair down there. the problem is i am rly insecure and i HATE hair down there it makes me feel nasty. shud i shave it or not?

[Missmj]

You should groom it, maybe shave the bikini line. It gives an impression of clean, and shaved.

[Amy]

If you want to shave it then shave it.. maybe you could leave a little hair for him? But if you don't like the hair on you the. Shave it

[Carys]

you have been taught to hate pubic hair, because the majority of powerful men want clean shaven vagina's like a child, because most men are pedophiles. as long as your keeping clean, enjoy the fact that you don't have to be insecure, men who like like natural women are rare. i say dont shave

[dave j]

I'm a guy and I totally agree with "carys's" answer right above mine. Consider yourself lucky, less than 20 years ago most guys guys expected girls to have hair "down there" and accepted and liked it. Many of us still do. For me it looks more natural, mature, and sexy. Plus it makes you look like a woman and less like a child. The majority of most girls shave these days because they have been brainwashed....like most guys....by social/media/fashion/peer pressure/porn or whatever to believe that pubic hair is some kind of disgusting disease. It is not...at all. Many girls who do shave there do it only because of social conformity and many hate doing it. Believe me they would LOVE to meet a guy like the one you're into so that they wouldn't have to worry about removing hair there. I say keep it and get used to it and believe me this guy you like will really show appreciation I'll bet because he'll be really turned on and give you a lot of great sex. That's how it works for me. Otherwise, if you do shave, he may find another girl who will keep her "down there" hair for him and may even prefer to do so.