completely breaking away from family?

[Caroline]

I am 46 years old. I was thrown in a grownup position at the age of 9. I am now figuring out you I really am. The reason that I want a clean slate is because I have been in a stressful, controlled situation my family for a really long time. I have never been married. I lived on my own with a roommate. My mom is constantly yelling at me and blaming me for everything.I do not have one minute peace to myself. She is constantly on the phone with me. If me nor my roommate does not answers she is down here to check on me.I am at the point that I feel like I have to physically change my name so I can have peace.I have been looking into prices and how to go about it.I am really serious about changing my name.I also know that I need my family at times but I can not deal with what I have. This is been going on long enough. I been trying to figure me out for the past 10 years. I had finally figure out that what I want for me and I am standing my grounds with that.

[Scarlett Mcoy]

that is quite a situation try telling mum to carm it explain to her and she will understand

Hope i helped

will yopu answer my question?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...122AAoAjq8

[sheloves_dablues]

Great. Do you have a question?

[Good Life by Love]

Stand up but be polite and reasonable. Make more money and be smart with everything so you won't need them.

Look at the sky, look at the tree. The joy from everything around you is your happiness.

Your free right now so take advantage of it.

Relationships are obligation, yet enjoyment, but there is responsibilities. Make sure this is the way you want to go.

If you do, join chat rooms, clubs, hobbies and meet people that like what you like.

There is so much you can do, start with little steps and keep at it.

If you do, join chat rooms, clubs, hobbies and meet people that like what you like.

There is so much you can do, start with little steps and keep at it.
Recommended to take it slow, take time to get to know the person. Try to keep things clean, less baggage. Let 7 years of perfect relationship before marriage. After 7 years of perfect marriage then a child if desired.

If things are minor I usually just wouldn't even give it a second thought. If it is major I just fix it the best way and that's it. Maybe this will be a good method for you guys. Always reinforce it with Love
Either way for later as a wife if you decide make sure to take care of him always in the love making area. I hope you can be stay at home wife ([no school]events with guys around unless your husband is there 100%) that takes care of all the woman things and he is taking care of all the man things like lifting, fixing working outside and handling all those jerks, and if you do work outside you know what I mean. I hope you can be a home wife so the marriage can be a loving one with peace.

Always talking is good. Find a private place to talk with time to talk. Never teach, just inform if necessary and in a meek manner. Handle the kids and teach them with few words and listen well, pay attention to details. If some parts kids can't be handled then inform the husband.

Be a good wife and make sure all the cooking and cleaning is done. Stay Fit, Smell Good, Dress well. Make sure to make love when ever either of you want.

Be meek. Quick to listen, slow to speak. Only tell him things when needed. Never teach him. If you do tell him something make sure it is kindly. Handle the kids, and if you notice you can't for sure then inform him in a kindly way.

Hugs and kisses are always good any time, instead in front of the guys otherwise the guys might want some too. Make sure to let him know to keep the making love part private.


On another note you seem to be a very nice person, so I like to add that what ever person you want a serious relationship with, take your time (years) and really really really see if this is the person you will spend your whole life with. If you can even better never get married and just enjoy your life with nothing serious, make sure the other party knows your intentions. I also like to add though, in marriage it is a different kinda love, a very valuable kinda love. Always do whats best for everyone like what you did when you asked this question,

Try your best. Love like you never love before. This is the best way for love to come and start surrounding your life. May love be around you, through you and is you.

Love and the Good Life will come

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