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I need help with this girl who rejected me twice... what now?
03-24-2014, 10:48 AM
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I need help with this girl who rejected me twice... what now?
So this amazing girl came into my life like a year ago and I asked her out and she rejected me and then like 5 months later I asked her out again and sadly she rejected me again. But now about a month after the second rejection when we see each other on every few weekends (because we have a school activity together) she has been texting me and saying that I should come over and talk to her and our other friends but I would just make some excuse and not go. I've been avoiding her a lot when I am at our activity. I Barely ever talk to her. And she does has done this twice each time for the past two times I have seen her.
We also have this group chat on Facebook with some friends where I talk to her a lot. And today she said that I should let her know if I ever am in her city (which I come through sometimes) so me, her and some of our other friends who live there can hang out.
Then she also texts me sometimes which she initiates herself a lot which is great. And tonight I texted her happy new year and she asked a question after saying happy new year which made us talk up until about 30 minutes ago. So like 2 hours.

What does all of this mean? Should I keep talking to her and see where it goes again? Should I avoid her still? She is really REALLY nice so maybe she is just being nice to me and trying to make up for the rejection??

Thanks for reason and happy new yearSmile

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03-24-2014, 10:53 AM
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Well she probably likes you as 'a friend'. Don't get into friend or best friend zone with her because it's gonna be hard for you's to be boyfriend and girlfriend because she may find it awkward since you've been together for a year in 'friend zone'. Emm, if she rejected you twice, you should still keep talking to her and don't ignore her. Just show her that you are willing to be patient for her in order to catch her heart ( trust me, we all like guys who are patient for us, that's how my parents got together, my dad waited till my mum said yeh and trust me she said yes after a few years).
Love takes time! It doesn't just end whenever you're rejected, you never know, after a few weeks/months/years she may start having the same feelings for you. If you're not willing to be patient try this
( remember that there's always other fishes in the sea)
Talk to her. Ask if she actually WANTS to be in a relationship right now or is she not ready yet?
Just be friends. It's always better to be friends than talking to her awkwardly whenever you've already been rejected. It's better to be normal around each other, yah know?

Good luck!
Best wishes, Mika <3

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