Did I change her mind or something?

[Owen Benedict]

I started liking this girl... for about 5 months now...we've been friends for 4 years. She is a very confident girl but when it comes to this stuff...she is shy so I would like to point out she ain't a player. She didn't even have a boyfriend yet. Anyways...

A few months ago...I kinda made a move to see if she's interested in me. Anyways... from what I've heard from a friend of hers she isn't interested probably because she got her heartbroken almost 4 months before i made my move. Cause of this I tried to distance myself... but I can't cause we are taking the same class in college.

So I tried being her friend again. But sometimes she'll keep on touching me or she'll place her head on my shoulders and she calls me the "sweetest guy" she knows. She even told me "any girl would be lucky to have me" (when I asked how she was when she got sick). Sometimes we cuddle. But this isn't always the case sometimes she'll ignore me and decline my invites to eat.

Anyways we we're chatting on facebook a few days ago and one thing led to another and I kinda asked her to be my valentine jokingly... then valentine's day came...we went to a concert with our friends and she kept asking me to come near her but not the 5 other guys we we're with and anyways the crowd is going crazy and she got dizzy and i took care of her. After...she kinda told me "so...it seems your really my date huh".



After the concert, she was hugging my arms and I took a shot... I held her hand instead. This is the 1st time I've done this. So we walked and after about 10 seconds I let go. She didn't react negatively or anything but instead of holding my upper arm again she held my wrist...so I assumed it was okay...and tried again. She didn't react negatively. When we we're about to head home. This is about 12 in the morning. She told me to text her the plate number of the taxi I was taking... you know for safety reasons... and I told her to do the same. Then when I arrived in my house I texted her and she did the same when she texted me. She thanked me for taking care of her... and what I did was worth a THOUSAND roses...

Anyways weekend came along so...I didn't get to see her. But weirdly enough every time I made a status in facebook. She is gonna like that status instantly as if like 1 min -5 mins that i posted it.

So...do you think she have a change of heart? Do girls think hand holding is a sign of interest or something?
It is worth noting that the day before valentines day we kinda had a fight... and I wasn't talking to her...cause I was really disappointed in what she did. She seems apologetic... but I didn't want to talk to her... But during this period... she keeps on looking at me...especially when I talk to my other friends.
She actually texted me to come.
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@Marsipula
I replied btw to her text msg... I said "Of course I would take care of you...I am after all your "Valentine's Date".

To everyone that replied I wish I could pick all of you as the best answer. I REALLY REALLY THANK YOU. I got crushed before when I thought she didn't like me. I wanna take it slow... I wanna do this right. I'll go along and when the opportunity comes. I'll be ready

[Kathi]

Yes holding hands dcfinatly says come be with me, I think anyway.

[Joan]

It definitely sounds like she had a change of heart and likes you. Sinse u said she's shy, it sounds like she's putting herself out there for u but in subtle ways. But u should take charge and keep trying, but don't come on too strong and push her away. Good luck xD

[kanik]

yeah, she likes u

[Rachel]

Ooooooh boy she is totally into you be suttle about your moves tho because you have crawled out of the friendzone! Just be careful and take chances when they present themselves!

[Marsipula]

hand holding is a sign of interest for sure why else would you hold someones hand? when my boyfriend has to let go he usually apologizes and explains or w.e. which i think is cute and doesn't make me worry because we're silly; but if she seemed fine it doesn't matter especially if she still talked to you after and didn't seem different that's a very good sign. It doesn't seem as if she changed her mind at all, i think you should go on a date just the two of you so you can become boyfriend girlfriend before you get friend zoned! p.s. I'm pretty sure the "so...it seems you're really my date" comment was a hint/flirty question to make sure if you two were really on a date, you should have been like "yes if that's want you want *cute/flirty/nervous smile!" but it seems fine either way next time you ask her to hang out with just the two of you say the word "DATE" when you ask if you want to take things further that is! good luck

[Giana]

Okay honestly it sounds like you really like her and she really likes you. If you've known her for 4 years I think that she's pretty comfortable with u. That means she's probably just waiting for you to make a move (like ask her out or something). I know u said her friend told u she isn't interested but her actions seem different. You guys sound cute together so I think you should just talk 2 her. Good luck!
P.S you need communication to make a relationship work so giving her the silent treatment isn't good no matter how mad you are. It doesn't benefit anyone, just hurts her and you