Does This Guy Have A Crush On Me But I Really Do Love Him Please Help Me? (First Question).?

[Emily]

Okay so this new guy came to our class to join as he is from Egypt and he has been in England for about 5 months as i am in the UK. Then he didn't talk to me at first but we started to talk in class like he sat opposite me then suddenly he moved next to me and i was like okay like i was fine with it. Then i was getting something from my locker and someone said to me emily (his name) want's you and i said okay hold on so i went up to him and he just gave me a christmas card and i was like awww thanks and the next day i gave him a christmas card. Then we would talk and walk together.

Then we had our christmas holiday he doesn't have any social networks. He just treats me different to other girls like he will make me laugh and this has been going for like 2 weeks now. He makes me laugh like last friday me and him got into a group and he said i will write and i was like ok that's fine then like 2 minutes later he tapped on my shoulder and he said my name and i looked at the answer and i laughed hard but that answer had nothing to do with the quiz.

Then on monday me and him had lunch together in the class and we were laughing and then one girl said to me are you to dating? and he took like 10 seconds to say no and then she said would you to like to date? and he said no and i just went along with it but really i wished he said yes because i fancy him too but i am hopping he has feelings for me too. Then after she asked he didn't talk to me for the rest of the day and then tuesday lunch time he did talk to me he said to me "good choice as i was eating jelly for my pack lunch. We started talking but i had to go off and do something.

Then on Wednesday i said to him good luck on your history results and i said to him thanks and you too. Then at break we were talking and we walked to class together but he had to go off to another class but when we were walking down the corridor this other guy said to me so are you walking with your boyfriend and this is another guy in my class and then the guy who i fancy walked off and said to him thanks. Then my friend caught up with me and told her what had happened and she said to me that i think you 2 make a cute couple me and the one who i fancy. Then later on in the day it was lunch time and i had to do something but when i got to class he said hey emily and i said hi how are you? then the other guy who is spreading rumours about me and him dating he said to me come here and he said to me that this morning (Wednesday morning) that my crush had said to him that he fancies me and he wants to date me and my crush heard it and i was like ok? and i went up to my crush and i said to him what happened and he said Ermmm sorry i don't know but he turned a little red when i said that but then when i went to sit next to him my friend wants to talk to me and i was sitting down and i felt his foot touching my foot.

Then Thursday (Today), I walked into class for registration and he said Hi Emily how are you? and i replied saying good thanks. Then at break the guy who is teasing us said to me so did you ask him out? and i said no. Then he said you should do and he walked off then he stopped and he said by the way i was talking to him and he said that he is in the library and i said okay thanks so i went up to the library and he saw me and he said hey u okay? and i said yes i am good thanks. Then i said what subject have you got next and he done like a silly dance and he said oh yeah i have go media and i laughed and he laughed too and it was really cool. Then at registration he said to me hello and i said hi back. Then the guy who is teasing us wanted to talk to me and i went up to him and he said so did you ask him out and my crush was in the room at the same he said that and i said no and then my crush started to look at me but he didn't talk to me for the rest of the afternoon.

These are other things he does: -
- He is mostly my partner in every subject.
- He teaches me Techniques.

I am so sorry this is long but i had to as this is my first question and i wanted to get details into this details i am asking so can you please answer i would really appreciate it if you can answer but i promise you that all my answers will be short and i will do my best next time.

Thanks for answering. Emily.

[Caroline]

I feel like I'm reading your diary.

[HiThere]

Wow, you really didn't need to list all those details. I suggest next time shortening it up by basically saying "he talks and flirts with me a lot" rather than describe every scenario because all these details are kind of irrelevant. Basically from what I read, he shows a lot of attention toward you by looking and talking to you a lot, also being involved with you in school.

Sounds to me like he is just shy about officially making you his GF. Remember guys don't get too obsessed with labeling a situation with a girl, like "dating" "relationship" etc... Girls are usually the ones who want things defined. Guys like to go with the flow typically and if everything works well, you two get a long and have fun he will likely want to keep seeing you. However, if you are still seeing this guy after a couple months it would be reasonable to ask this guy if you two are indeed dating and not seeing anyone else.