Is my boyfriend too controlling?

[Yaz]

Ive been with him for 2 years now, but he seems to become more controlling by the day. Just today he restricted me from listening to music from Justin Bieber. He's told me how to dress, how to act in public, which friends I should not be hanging around with.. its beginning to be more painful and hard to be around. I don't speak to any other guys because he doesn't like it, I'm not allowed to socialise or speak to any male colleagues at work, I'm not allowed a twitter account 'because random guys may follow me'. I have to approve my profile pictures with him before I upload them. It's putting a strain on my relationship and whenever I try to confront him and speak to him about it, he twists it so I'm in the wrong. I made plans with my mum for monday, but he wanted to go swimming with me that day and tried to get me to change the dates with mum but I refused. I wasn't having it, family means most. When we go out it feels like I pay most of the time, the 'rules' that he sets me are allot different to what he follows. When were outside he's allowed to comment on women's looks but if I do it as a joke its the end of the world. He's allowed to look at celebrities photos and say how sexy or fit they are yet if I said a celebrity male was good looking its also the end of the world. I wanted to save up to buy the new samsung Galaxy s3, and he disapproved and said I wasn't going to get it. I honestly do not what to do! I love him but I cant cope this way. Any suggestions?

[free spirit]

um yes, leave him now....

[Coco]

He's WAY too controlling! Girl you deserve to be FREE not be stuck in the boundaries he's putting you in!
Sit down with him and talk about it, and if he refused to change his ways, then I would say goodbye. A marriage would never last. Seems like he would need a private investigator to follow you around, haha.

[Cosmini]

yeah I have a suggestion how about to leave him

[Danielle]

Hes way to controlling. Let him know he cant control you.. leave him!

[Amz]

You stay with him and you will get everything you deserve.

you need to get out of this relationship and now. This is not a normal relationship.

[Chris]

Leave him now

[Jason]

Explain all of this to him, if he tries to get out of it like you say he does stop him. Hes being far too controlling. He has issues and hes smothering you. I'm really not trying to be cruel I just think hes mental. He tried to make you change dates so he can have you close to him rather then you spending time with your mother.. That's plane stupid. What was his reaction to this? Was he mad about it?

He has no right to set 'rules' for you. Your a grown woman I assume and you should not let him push you around like that. He can look at women and you can't look at men? That also is mental. You too are equal and he doesn't seem to know that. You can do whatever the hell you want even if it means posting naked pictures of yourself on twitter. He cannot stop you from making a twitter account if you want. Furthermore he cannot stop you from spending your money on what you want. You should re-read your post and really think about why you love him and think about if you love him enough to put up with his controlling nature. If I was a girl I would kick him out unless he stops smothering you.

All of these restrictions are him being stupid and you shouldn't stand for it. Really get mad at him until he listens to him. If he refuses to change his ways, leave him. Good luck

[Nazia]

Say to him
'You're too hypocritical and controlling, and thats the end of it. And this is the end of us.'
Cut him out