What is this quote from?

[nickname]

I read this quote that I really liked on a social media website a while ago, and it was something along the lines of, "People often say that you can't love others until you learn to love yourself, but that's wrong. Love is not dependent on others." Or something like that. Those words are far off from the actual quote but the message was basically about how wrong that "you have to love yourself before you can love others" quote is. I can't remember where it's from, but if someone knows the exact words that would help a lot! Thanks!

[Abby]

Was it "love yourself first and everything else falls into line.you really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world" ? That's from Lucile ball

[hi]

Maybe you have to love yourself before others can let others love you