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I told him I'm done and he seems to think otherwise?
03-24-2014, 10:58 AM
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I told him I'm done and he seems to think otherwise?
I told this guy I was seeing I'm ced up with what we have going . He can quite rude and last night I said we cant be together nor friends as he obviously can't hack it. Neuther can I, the bitterness is real. However as we spoke, I realised he kwpt saying things like "yeah we need space, we need to think about things" also disregarding what I'm saying and making his own sort of version of what I said.
Now I miss him, I gpt very attached to him but I know he's no good for me. Therefore I kept saying you know I'm tired of all this. We can't be together. We just keep going roung and round. But he wont drop this space thing, like he wants the hope of us reconcilling.
I gave up and was like I certainly do think need time away from you. And he was like I'll always be here, gimme a shout when you're ready....Confused
My question really is am i obligated now to speak to him or tell him all over again that we aren't a good idea? Or can I hust never talk to him again (which i want)

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03-24-2014, 11:00 AM
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Cut off all the strings - block his phone number, delete his accounts on your FB, Twitter, Skype, whatever...
You don't need to talk to him again - you've already told him what he needed to hear!

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03-24-2014, 11:02 AM
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if you never speak to him, he's gonna take it as that you're still thinking about getting back together (Which is clearly what you don't want). I suggest you text him or call him, your choice and just tell him plain and simply "I've had some time to think, and my answer is still No." After that, i don;t believe you're obligated to speak to him ever again since you you made it clear to him that it's still a no, Under His Circumstances!, which was to give you space... Hope everything goes well, Good Luck!
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