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How to get this girl ive been seeing to keep hanging out and hooking up with me, even tho I now have a GF?
03-24-2014, 10:59 AM
Post: #1
How to get this girl ive been seeing to keep hanging out and hooking up with me, even tho I now have a GF?
Ok so heres the story, and 10pts for best answer TODAY:

I started talking to girl 1 and girl 2 about the same time.

Girl 1 is the girl I started dating; talked to her a little longer; we had wild sex; anyway we started dating LATE last night on FB officially, so it wasnt technically cheating (literally an hour after seeing girl 2 for our second date).

Girl 1 doesnt know I'm seeing girl 2 anymore. She knew I hung out with her and hooked up a week ago on me and girl 2's date 1, but she thinks I stopped talking to her.

I just added girl 2 on facebook and like a dumbass forgot about my relationship status, from last night, it was a "life event" on my page and like 15 or so people liked it.

Girl 1 is much more attractive than Girl 2. They both REALLY like me.
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Girl 2 saw the facebook "life event" and now knows I am dating girl 1. Here was the convo:

ME-which part caught your interest

HER- haha the big in a relationship status that's at the top of your feed

ME- haha yeahhhh she really wanted to make it official

HER- yea see that's a little weird

ME- yeah we can only be friends. i didnt wanna break the news while you're in class (EDIT: I SAID THIS SO I WOULDNT APPEAR TO BE A CHEATER.)

HER- I figured as much. its cool man

ME- its a tough situation

HER- how so?

ME- how do you think

HER- I think it's a pretty easy situation. She likes you, and you like her.

ME- haha you dont mess aroundwe can still hang as friends though

HER- I told you I don't. And yea that might be possible

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Last night when me and girl 2 were hooking up, she had said that she would like to date me but would also be down to just stay FWB/whatever with me. Shes REALLY into me, I can tell- her eyes, body language, the way she looks up at me, cuddles with me, the way she has sex with me, the way she laughs at everything i say and genuinely finds it funny. its that look into my eyes that I just know.

I wanna know... is it possible to get girl 2 to still hang with me?

Girl 1 is the "smart" choice- shes better looking technically, smarter, gonna have a better job, and more popular with the right crowd.

Girl 2 is more of a band geek dork who I find sexy. Shes more chill, doesnt take things as seriously, but shes still really into me.

Basically girl 1 is hotter and will make more money and has richer parents, BUT girl 2 has a better personality and I click with her a little better with.

also at the end of the day I HAVE FEELINGS for girl 2. As much as girl 1 is so so SO hot and out of my league... I simply dont have that much feelings for her. idk

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03-24-2014, 11:08 AM
Post: #2
 
It&#x27;s okay to not be in a relationship at your age. I say this because you&#x27;re jumping back and forth between two girls that are both into you. My best word of advice is to live the single life until you starting reaching about 19-21 years old. Trust me man, I&#x27;ve lived through it.

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03-24-2014, 11:10 AM
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Youre going to get caught out. So you need to cut bait with one of them. If girl 2 is the kind of girl that will hook up with you while dating girl 1, you should probably pick girl 1
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03-24-2014, 11:20 AM
Post: #4
 
Grow up. wow! I hope both girl 1 and 2 figure you out before they get hurt terribly.
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03-24-2014, 11:23 AM
Post: #5
 
I&#x27;d go with girl 2. You can&#x27;t have both. And at the end of the day you wouldn&#x27;t be posting this question unless you really truly liked girl 1. It&#x27;s quite obvious you like girl 2. It&#x27;s all about chemistry, not who&#x27;s gonna have a better job and money.
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03-24-2014, 11:32 AM
Post: #6
 
this is why u never do friends with benefits...the girl has feelings because girls get emotionally attached to u when u have sex. one person is eventually gonna catch feelings and get hurt this is why u never do this kinda shit. and your dating this other girl at the same time...u dont seem ready to handle a relationship. in a relationship u dont cheat. fwb stops immediately when your with someone. forget about the looks for a minute. look at the mess u created make up your mind stick to it and stay commited to who ever u pick. if u get sex from girl one why do u need it from girl two. ur gonna get caught anyway and it will be a whole mess that u created. this is why u dont do this shit. it screws u in the end EVERY TIME
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03-24-2014, 11:34 AM
Post: #7
 
Ooookaay.......if you're "in a relationship with girl 1" then you have no business dating and hooking up with girl 2. Unless you're willing to allow girl 1 the same freedoms you yourself are enjoying. If not, you are being very sneaky and deceitful, be careful about that, you'll soon learn that a bad reputation has a way of following you (i.e. no girl will want to date you if you are known to be a lying cheat)

Either do the right thing and tell girl 1 you are not ready to be in a committed relationship (and please stay single until you are really ready to commit yourself to one person only) or stop messing around and act like a man and be a faithful boyfriend. Real men don't cheat.
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