How to get this girl ive been seeing to keep hanging out and hooking up with me, even tho I now have a GF?
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03-24-2014, 10:59 AM
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How to get this girl ive been seeing to keep hanging out and hooking up with me, even tho I now have a GF?
Ok so heres the story, and 10pts for best answer TODAY:
I started talking to girl 1 and girl 2 about the same time. Girl 1 is the girl I started dating; talked to her a little longer; we had wild sex; anyway we started dating LATE last night on FB officially, so it wasnt technically cheating (literally an hour after seeing girl 2 for our second date). Girl 1 doesnt know I'm seeing girl 2 anymore. She knew I hung out with her and hooked up a week ago on me and girl 2's date 1, but she thinks I stopped talking to her. I just added girl 2 on facebook and like a dumbass forgot about my relationship status, from last night, it was a "life event" on my page and like 15 or so people liked it. Girl 1 is much more attractive than Girl 2. They both REALLY like me. ========================= Girl 2 saw the facebook "life event" and now knows I am dating girl 1. Here was the convo: ME-which part caught your interest HER- haha the big in a relationship status that's at the top of your feed ME- haha yeahhhh she really wanted to make it official HER- yea see that's a little weird ME- yeah we can only be friends. i didnt wanna break the news while you're in class (EDIT: I SAID THIS SO I WOULDNT APPEAR TO BE A CHEATER.) HER- I figured as much. its cool man ME- its a tough situation HER- how so? ME- how do you think HER- I think it's a pretty easy situation. She likes you, and you like her. ME- haha you dont mess aroundwe can still hang as friends though HER- I told you I don't. And yea that might be possible ===================== Last night when me and girl 2 were hooking up, she had said that she would like to date me but would also be down to just stay FWB/whatever with me. Shes REALLY into me, I can tell- her eyes, body language, the way she looks up at me, cuddles with me, the way she has sex with me, the way she laughs at everything i say and genuinely finds it funny. its that look into my eyes that I just know. I wanna know... is it possible to get girl 2 to still hang with me? Girl 1 is the "smart" choice- shes better looking technically, smarter, gonna have a better job, and more popular with the right crowd. Girl 2 is more of a band geek dork who I find sexy. Shes more chill, doesnt take things as seriously, but shes still really into me. Basically girl 1 is hotter and will make more money and has richer parents, BUT girl 2 has a better personality and I click with her a little better with. also at the end of the day I HAVE FEELINGS for girl 2. As much as girl 1 is so so SO hot and out of my league... I simply dont have that much feelings for her. idk Ads |
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03-24-2014, 11:08 AM
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It's okay to not be in a relationship at your age. I say this because you're jumping back and forth between two girls that are both into you. My best word of advice is to live the single life until you starting reaching about 19-21 years old. Trust me man, I've lived through it.
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03-24-2014, 11:10 AM
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Youre going to get caught out. So you need to cut bait with one of them. If girl 2 is the kind of girl that will hook up with you while dating girl 1, you should probably pick girl 1
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03-24-2014, 11:20 AM
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Grow up. wow! I hope both girl 1 and 2 figure you out before they get hurt terribly.
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03-24-2014, 11:23 AM
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I'd go with girl 2. You can't have both. And at the end of the day you wouldn't be posting this question unless you really truly liked girl 1. It's quite obvious you like girl 2. It's all about chemistry, not who's gonna have a better job and money.
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03-24-2014, 11:32 AM
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this is why u never do friends with benefits...the girl has feelings because girls get emotionally attached to u when u have sex. one person is eventually gonna catch feelings and get hurt this is why u never do this kinda shit. and your dating this other girl at the same time...u dont seem ready to handle a relationship. in a relationship u dont cheat. fwb stops immediately when your with someone. forget about the looks for a minute. look at the mess u created make up your mind stick to it and stay commited to who ever u pick. if u get sex from girl one why do u need it from girl two. ur gonna get caught anyway and it will be a whole mess that u created. this is why u dont do this shit. it screws u in the end EVERY TIME
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03-24-2014, 11:34 AM
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Ooookaay.......if you're "in a relationship with girl 1" then you have no business dating and hooking up with girl 2. Unless you're willing to allow girl 1 the same freedoms you yourself are enjoying. If not, you are being very sneaky and deceitful, be careful about that, you'll soon learn that a bad reputation has a way of following you (i.e. no girl will want to date you if you are known to be a lying cheat)
Either do the right thing and tell girl 1 you are not ready to be in a committed relationship (and please stay single until you are really ready to commit yourself to one person only) or stop messing around and act like a man and be a faithful boyfriend. Real men don't cheat. |
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