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Eden · 03-24-2014, 11:05 AM

I really liked this girl alot and wrote her letters, songs,bought her presents and stuffs but she just didnt love me back...which she told me right after i told her i was interested

But the thing is I felt so attached to her, and it was really hard for me to detach so i kept pursuing hoping she'll change her mind but she woudlnt

Im new to this dating life, though im 18 and i really didnt know how to go about expressing my feelings to her so i really screwed up and completely creeped her out.....which i apologized later and she accepted my aplogy

I loved her so much. Until I met her, i hadnt had such feelings like that before and i even told her that.

We're both in our senior year in high school, live in the same building, and we see each other pretty much everyday, we share an english class together

But now she's told everybody in the school all i did for her...including the letter, me buying her gifts and how i wanted her to me my gf...blah blah blah

I feel so bad because im a very self-conscious person and things were starting to get better for me this school year but now i'm gonna have to endure mockery from all the folks in the school and its gonna hurt me very badly.

Its even a worse feeling because I loved her.....how could she hurt me so badly???After all I've done for her and its not that i hurt her feelings.....im the one thats been hurt and the best she could do was to embarass me like this???

I feel so guilty, down, embarrased, ashamed, and downcasted........Im just at shock.

I wasnt in control of my feelings....they took over me and completely killed me. Now i feel like a fool for loving someone......

Even worse...she posted this on her facebook 2 days ago

You should've known by now not to catch feelings Smile

REALLY????Are most girls like that or just one in a million because im a newbie to all these and havent had a gf before.It really hurts.....

Garrett · 03-24-2014, 11:14 AM

Not all girls are like that dude, but you did kinda seem like a creep by doing all the stuff for a girl that didn't like you back. Take my advise and go after a girl but make sure she at lest likes you be for you go buying her stuff

Visualgeese086 · 03-24-2014, 11:21 AM

If I was you I would back off, ignore her except to speak and be polite.

dazzy · 03-24-2014, 11:30 AM

F*** her.

You spent so much effort on her and she just ruins it. I hate girls like that! They are beautiful and pretty in the outside but their inside just ruins it all. They have an ugly heart. You my friend, she is a waste a time. Chase for the one that has a warm heart.

May the odds be forever in your favor.<3

Courtney · 03-24-2014, 11:35 AM

Aww Boo. That's so sad. I cant believe that after everything you did for her, she decided to be such an arse.
I honestly need you to understand, that not all girls are like that at all. We're all very different in so many ways and the perfect girl for you is out there somewhere Wink

so don't let this girl ruin dating/love for you. You don't deserve to end your love life when you've just started it. I really hope things lighten up at your school, coz you seem like a great person. Don't give up! You'll be fine. xx

Anna · 03-24-2014, 11:44 AM

you should be confident in yourself, stop thinking about this girl now and move on, you're probably a romantic person which a lot of girls out there would love to date.
Stop worrying about what will others think, it won't kill you.. It might be hard at the beginning but everything will be alright soon, prove to that girl that she made a wrong decision rejecting you!
By moving on and ignoring her!
Good luck Smile