How could she get over me so quickly?!?

[Sean]

It's just frustrating.
My girlfriend of almost two years had cheated on me over the new year break, while I was off on a family vacation - she went and tripped it down to meet some group of people in Jersey who she met over the internet.

After everything was done and over with, she's already moved out got her stuff completely but she doesn't even seem fazed at all. That this is all over and she doesn't even give half a damn. She "gushes" about this guy that she's been talking to over skype about how he's "sweet", "innocent", and "horny" and "everything she could ever want" and just what the seven hells..

We just spent Christmas together with both her and my family's, I had helped her through so many distressful situations with her losing her job again and again. No matter how much people were against this relationship at first I had fought every step of the way to defend her - and even after she moved in with me n' my family n' my dad didn't even want her there - I kept her under the roof.

We had plans to move out n' go off and live another chapter of our lives together on our own. Dates, dinner, big trips off elsewhere in the country ...

and all of this gone in nothing more than a mere moment.
1-2 days later and she's already on to some other guy (over the internets mind you. But no doubt she'll go see him..)

I'm here, lost, heartbroken - trying to find my way back into the lives that I've pushed and distanced myself away for so long and there she is...already into a new world without any signs of remorse, sadness or regret.

I just want to get over this all and start a new, but to see her move on just like that kind of puts me in more distress. Why does she get to move on while I'm stuck here picking up the pieces?


Additional notes: She wasn't drunk. The guy wasn't either. They as well as the other 14 people in the house knew she had a boyfriend.

[Invader Zim]

Hate to be the one to tell you, friend, she's a slutty bitch

[Timothy Stephens]

Stop collecting all this negative stuff ! get your life on track just like your ex has.Sensible girl.Shes clearly stronger than you and you have to man up and see this as a blessing.
She wasnt for you so you are free !!! Free to get looking for somebody far more suitable.

[Leavi]

Girls sometimes stay in relationships for convenience not love so while you may have been in love with her she was just using you as emotional support and using your resources as well, I think you should forget about her and move on with a new girl, cut off all contact or you'll never be able to move on..

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[Chandie]

TIME FOR NO CONTACT! You must UNFOLLOW her NOW on any SOCIAL MEDIA. You need time to recollect your self, never for a minute doubt your self worth. You are suffering from disappointment and rejection. She is honestly a hateful girl. NO ex should ever have to bare such pain. Fall for a nicer girl next time who won't break your heart. Somewhere along the relationship she lost interest in you and found someone else. It happens to the best of us but she had no decency and cheated on you. Focus on her negative qualities! Talk **** about her! Anything that will get you over this girl. Take this time to build yourself up and be selfish about attaining your goals and focus on being an awesome person that she will live to regret for ever dropping.
And, yes, I do agree with the above comment that she stayed with you because it was convenient. Humans are sadistic creatures. As time goes, you'll have to learn to forgive her... But that will take time. It is the only way that you can be able to let go because ultimately, the thing that drags on and impairs us from moving on 100% is the hurt and anger we continue feeling.

[Nobody]

I'm so sorry. The thing is, I don't think you should really stay with this girl. she's not exactly your "type". this may sound mean and i apologize in advance, but she seems...slutty. you deserve someone that actually puts effort into the relationship and shows that they actually care about you. you deserve someone that sees you as the one she TRULY loves. it may be hard to get over someone you once cared for so much, but time will take its course. once time has taken its course, you'll find her. the correct her.
hopefully this helped