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Should I break up with my girlfriend?
03-24-2014, 11:08 AM
Post: #1
Should I break up with my girlfriend?
So recently my girlfriend and I have been fighting a lot. She follows guys on twitter and likes Instagram pictures of other guys.. I'm the jealous type so of course this makes me mad. Were also in a long distance relationship and it's almost our 2 months. She says she isn't talking to any other guys but the other day I caught her talking to her ex when she just said it was a kid in here class but they really met online. I wake up in a bad mood and she makes me cry a lot.. Things have gotten alittle but better and I love her a lot but I'm scared to break up with her.

If I broke up with her I would literally have no one to talk to or text.. I broke up with her once but she kept saying sorry and sent me a picture saying "bye" with mascara all over her face from tears so I took her back.

What should I do? Best answer will receive 10 points.

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03-24-2014, 11:10 AM
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Well before you make any decision to end this relationship, you must confront her and ask her if she is thinks the relationship has any future? Tell her that you have been worried, and you feel uncomfortable when she talks excessively to other men. Please let her know that you want a straight and honest answer from her.

I don't know her well enough to make this decision for you, so it is up to you figure out whether she is serious or not.

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03-24-2014, 11:20 AM
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In my perspective, don&#x27;t get jealous so easily.
If you truly hate when she likes guys&#x27; Instagram photos then simply ask her if she can stop.
You should start expressing how you feel toward her because little do you know that can make your relationship 10X better.
If she doesn&#x27;t want to delete her Instagram then I suggest you just simply ask her to stop like other male guys&#x27; pictures.
BUT do you like other females&#x27; pictures? If yes, then you shouldn&#x27;t tell her to stop liking guys&#x27; pics when you&#x27;re doing the exact same thing but you&#x27;re liking girls&#x27; pics.
Don&#x27;t let some stupid jealous get ahold of your relationship.
Talk to her about your problems rather than keeping it to yourself. You&#x27;ll feel so much better when you do.
Also, if she says no when you ask her to stop then I suggest you just break it off with her and find a female that&#x27;s willing to listen to your wills.
Good luck Wink
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03-24-2014, 11:21 AM
Post: #4
 
You already know the answer to this question. No one needs to tell you one way or the other. She doesn&#x27;t respect you; you&#x27;ve taught her how not to. Maybe both of you have the same fear of being without each other (or alone period).

Do what feels right.
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03-24-2014, 11:25 AM
Post: #5
 
I personally think you&#x27;re way too reliant on her, you sound young, you have so many opportunities, take them.
I think you should break it off with her and get yourself involved in something else. It seems to me the only thing stopping you from exiting the relationship is because you don&#x27;t wanna be lonely. She guilt tripped you into going out beforehand so maybe it is for the best if you end it?
If you need to talk then comment your email and ill be happy to help you with anything I can.
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