What should a girl do next if she likes a guy?

[Mandy]

I'm a 4th year med student and there is this guy I recently met during one of my rotations. We've had a few convo's here and there and he seems to be a really nice guy. So far he has initiated every convo we've had and most have been during our lecture days. I get really nervous when I talk to him and I think my nervousness might come off as being rude- I try to end the convo fast and I usually just start talking to someone else.Anyways, I've tried to show that I'm not a complete bi*** and I recently sent out a friend request to him on facebook- he accepted it! But now I don't know what to do. When it comes to guys I like I tend to get really shy and nervous. I don't want to come off as being weird or aggressive- but at the same time I don't want to miss an opportunity to get to know someone that I like, What should I do?

[Candiceâ„¢]

• Hi Mandy well here are 4 starters to help u on the road to a more POSITIVE image and will help u overcome those conversation blanks etc, plus may just help u chat with this guy so u don't come across as a snob when we know that is not the case OK Cheers ♥

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1. BE SELF-AWARE AND DEVELOP A POSITIVE SELF-IMAGE
When you trust yourself, are self-aware and can frame yourself in positive terms, your confidence soars
2. TAKE CONFIDENCE CUES FROM PEOPLE YOU ADMIRE
You need to fake it ’til you make it! Consider the way a confident person behaves—observe a friend, relative or colleague
3. FOCUS ON YOUR STRENGTHS, NOT YOUR WEAKNESSES
If you have a realistic understanding of your own strengths (we all have our strengths) and apply that to your most important and meaningful goals, you have a powerful tool with which to build self-confidence.
4. BEWARE OF BARRIERS TO ACHIEVING YOUR OBJECTIVES
If frustrating obstacles or negative feedback cross your path, don’t give up! Developing confidence takes a little persistence. Set realistic expectations: those lacking self-confidence often see an everyday barrier as a signal to throw in the towel.
For example, if in conversation and it goes quiet or u say dopey things then LISTEN and ANSWER accordingly about subject don’t expect to be the life of the group right away—this unrealistic expectation puts too much pressure on you. A good talking strategy is to give others your full attention. This not only shifts your focus away from thoughts like ‘this is a disaster’, but also makes people around you feel wonderful—a two-way confidence booster!

Same as if you WANT TO BE MORE POPULAR AT SCHOOL/COLLEGE then BE INVOLVED in school/college team activities like via sport, drama, debating classes, in other words being active not only helps makes you popular as long as your not arrogant this also helps stop you from being bullied.

Now go, let others see your no shrinking violet YES!!…… Candice ♥

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Applause to Candice

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