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Stopping communication?
03-24-2014, 11:23 AM
Post: #1
Stopping communication?
Right so I've just figured that I genuinely would do so much better on my own, as an individual rather than being so sociable. I have a lot of friends but I feel as if I'm always putting and act on by seeming happy as if everything is great when really, a lot has happened. I've just come to the point where I want to stop communicating with EVERYONE in my life (apart from family). I think that I'd probably be more responsible and independent and get things done a lot quicker.

I've deleted my Facebook, twitter, don't have a phone and if I'm honest, I feel much better without it. I just want to do my own thing. I kind of like being alone like I think things are a lot less complicated without having to worry about other people and just silly situations. I'm the kind of person go over thinks A LOT as well.

All I want to know is how I can stop talking to people and just be my own person. Can someone tell me how I really can do this?
Without feeling like activating my accounts as well..

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03-24-2014, 11:24 AM
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It's great that you deleted your facebook, twitter etc.
It's good to be alone and have some privacy sometimes, but not all the time.
You will definitely start to feel lonely, and this could lead to depression and boredom.
Still socialise, but do it whenever you feel like it.
Keep your friends, and even make new ones, but only to the extent on which you feel comfortable.
Don't over-think it at all.
Be yourself.
Be free.

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03-24-2014, 11:31 AM
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For someone who wants to stop communicating u r asking quite a lot of people aren't u? Don't u think ur question is quite a contradiction? There r a lot of ways to be alone but have u thought about the fact that maybe u have had the wrong company?

I don't have many friends but when I am with them I can be myself and don't have to worry about the fact that they might get me wrong or have a bad impression of me, cos there is a trust between us. If something doesn't compute I just ask them straight out, what did u mean by that and they do the same.

It is interesting that ur family is an exception, cos with one exception there isn't a single soul in my family to whom I could be myself and not 'suffer consequenses'! Since the consequenses r all the same to me nowadays I can be myself with my family as well: but it took a long time for me.
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03-24-2014, 11:38 AM
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Why would you want to stop talking to anyone? You can't expect to live without talking to people besides family. You're going to lose your social skills if you isolate yourself from the real world long enough.
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