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Should I end this friendship?
03-24-2014, 11:23 AM
Post: #1
Should I end this friendship?
I'm having all these memories of her, like when we went to the pool together in summers, had such a fun time pushing each other of the boat, telling each other stories, trolling people. But now since I moved she doesn't care. She always had better friends than me. When I went to her party it was terrible she completely ignored me, never said thank you for the gift, and looked at porn with her lesbian girlfriend. On Facebook she never leads the conversation, always mentions she has better friends than me. She lies that she can't go out, but on fb she posts pictures of her doing stuff with her gf. She said mean stuff to me and never apologized. I can't make new friends at my new school. But I feel I have to let go? It saddens me so much. She doesn't even trust me in fb but she does with her other friends. Her other friends don't even like me and say that I'm not they're real friend even though I went to school with them. I cried so much.

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03-24-2014, 11:26 AM
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End it she seems like a bit*ch and you dont deserve that. No friends is better than bad friends and besides you will be able to make new friends soon enough. You dont have to outright say you are ending it, just decrease talking to her online bit by bit until never at all, and she will assume you found new friends and possibly even regret being mean to you. Good luck.

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03-24-2014, 11:26 AM
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You're friend is no friend.
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03-24-2014, 11:32 AM
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Unfriend her on Facebook because you shouldn&#x27;t have to endure that every time you get on the site. If she starts texting you mean stuff delete her number and block it. It might be tough in the beginning but honestly you deserve to not have to put up with her if she&#x27;s behaving that way towards you.

After doing that you&#x27;ll be making new friends in no time. Don&#x27;t dwell in the past. Move forward with with your life. People aren&#x27;t always meant to be in your life for the long run, but don&#x27;t forget the good memories you had with her. Keep them and remember the good. That way you can remember what a good friendship looks like and make better ones with new people.
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03-24-2014, 11:35 AM
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know yourself. review your behavior. don't stop making friends so that you will learn.
dont end your friendship to the one you are referring to. wait, just smile say hi! when you meet.
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03-24-2014, 11:42 AM
Post: #6
 
Hun, it saddens me to have to say this to you, but it's best to cease being friends. Anyone willing to treat you like dirt after you have shown so much kindness isn't worth the time or effort spent.

It sucks to lose someone you thought was your friend - I know that for a fact - but there's no reason that you should have to endure their hurtful behavior after treating them like princesses. Moving on is the best option and making new friends that respect you won't be as hard as it seems, I promise.

I was always bullied in my previous school, but the moment I entered my current school, I found myself surrounded by a group of friends who would take a bullet for me. During the transition to my new school, I swore to my parents that I wouldn't make any friends just as it was at my previous school.

Give yourself a chance, and surely you will be able to make a successful fresh start.
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