Reasking. Do you think she likes me? How should I make a move?

[knicks541]

So obviously I know that no one can really answer this question but the girl who I am crushing on but I figure I would just get a second opinion or two about the situation.

So this girl I work with (retail) I have had a crush on for the past few weeks has been acting "different" I guess around me. Whenever she sees me she puts on a big smile and waves to me. She laughs at a lot of my dumb jokes or little things I say. Sometimes she mimics some of my sayings. The other day we had to do an overnight shift together and she asked me to stay by her so we could talk.

When we had our lunch, I didnt go into the break room to eat with everyone else. I was busy and had some other things to take care of and later on she said she was looking all over for me. She always tells me "You rock." Whenever I call myself stupid for messing something up she tells me "No you're not." To me this all points to the fact that she might like me, but then again I really dont know.

Here's what really drives it home for me, but at the same time idk if I'm just getting screwed with. She has made physician contact with me on two occasions. The first time she grabbed my arm when her hands were freezing after she had just come from outside. I really didnt think anything of it,I thought she just wanted to tell me it was cold without actually saying anything. Another time walked by me and touched my back. Another girl I worked with said "She totally wanted to touch you." I was kind of stunned, but I just figured that this other girl was trying to screw with my head. These girls are friendly (they are friends on social media) but I'm not sure about outside of work if they hang out, so idk if she maybe said something to this other girl about having a crush on me.

I am also not from the say state as her. I'm not going to say where just to make this as ambiguous as possible, but I think that could be the reason why she is acting this way. Maybe she just likes the fact that I'm not a native of the state and she is just crushing on that instead. Wild speculation but idk


I'm sorry about this wall of text. Like I said I just wanted a second opinion. I'm not the best when it comes to realizing this stuff. I don't want to mess anything up at work and make things awkward. What do you think if you were in this situation.

Is this girl just overly nice? Or does she maybe have a little crush on me? If you read all this text then thank you for taking time to help me with my situation.

[Brian]

yeah she totally likes you dude or at least a little crush

[KELSOBELSO77]

She might like you! I think your different state theory is kind of far fetched! If she dent like you it atleast seems like she is interested in you. You should ask her out and see what she says to see if she really does like you. That is the only way to really know

[shallowcobweb225]

I know even I have a tendency to overthink if a girl likes me or not, but you should cut back a little on the analysis.

In the meantime, however, it does seem like she likes you. She initiated physical contact on two occasions, sparking even a fellow female (who certainly is more familiar with the female psyche) to comment that she is physically attracted to you. However, because you are coworkers and relationships between employees are generally frowned up, decide carefully.

If you are indeed intent on asking her out, know the risk.
If she says yes (Yay!), you will need to watch for the opinions of your fellow employees and bosses. Nothing too bad, mind you, except they may give you guys strange looks at times.
If she says no (Boo!), then know you will need to see her on a regular basis.

Take care, but good job so far.