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How do I talk to my crush?(no one answering)?
03-24-2014, 11:28 AM
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How do I talk to my crush?(no one answering)?
Okay so this may be a little long, but it would totally be appreciated if you read it, haha...

On November 1st I was in a new school. In my first class of the day, I knew no one and sat alone. This girl I like, lets call her Nora(not her real name). Nora, asked me if i'd like to sit with her and her friend. I said "Umm sure." Nora was very obviously flirting with me(unless I have the wrong idea of what flirting is. She was smiling at me, staring at me(she seriously was talking to her friend a little bit, but would not take her eyes off of me), she drew hearts and smiley faces on my work, and she kept asking me a bunch of questions bout myself. She is the only other freshman in the class to. Anyways, I overheard her mention to her friend that she was breaking it off with her boyfriend. Her and I talked for a while and we were compatible on many levels! After that class I had to go to one she wasn't in so we didn't talk after that. I started liking her though and became shy around her. A few days later, she approaches me with the biggest, sweetest smile. She saw I was sitting alone and I didn't know many people because i'm a little shy, plus I was new. My heart lept into my stomach. She offered to sit with me, but like an idiot, my brain shut down, and I said "I'm the silent alone type of guy, but thanks anyway!"(I didn't wanna seem cowardly or loser-ish, but now I know I wouldn't have seemed that way) She walked away and went and joined her friends. A few days later I see her again, she pays me another sweet smile and asks if I can join her at lunch. Her table was full so I couldn't. This girl(not Nora) at the table had a giant bookbag right where I wanted to sit, so I nicely said "Hi, can you please put your bookbag on the floor, so I can sit here?". The girl sassed me like a *****, but I stayed calm and cool and smiled and said, "Well, okay then...." And I said bye to my crush. That was my last interaction with my crush. I feel like it is weird between us and idk how to talk to her again. She always has at least one friend around so me being kinda shy, that makes it more awkward for me. I sometimes catch her looking at me, but idk what to do. I'm lost..... I don't do any social media and refuse to get into all that so that's outta the question. This winter break, I feel like will help me to re-emerge next semester, but idk what to do. Anyways thanks for reading this, you are super, and thanks in advance if you answer!

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03-24-2014, 11:38 AM
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Do not type so much no one has time 4 this

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03-24-2014, 11:46 AM
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Well first off I think this is super cute! And I am kinda in the same position as you rn. But I&#x27;m thinking that she wants you to make the first move. So because we are coming back from break say something like &quot;hey how was your break?&quot; And then that should start a convo. It will break the ice a little and then from there you should be able to talk to her again like normal. Good luck!!
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03-24-2014, 11:50 AM
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All I can say is when you have class with her ask her to sit with you at lunch, and try to smile back at her if you catch her smiling at you, just try to give suddle hits that you like her, it should work
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03-24-2014, 11:54 AM
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just ask her out, seems like she will say yes even if her friends giggle. if she says no thats a part of life, learn from it and move on.
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03-24-2014, 12:02 PM
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Keep smiling at her, keep looking at her. Then let her come to you. You don't need to approach her, just let her approach you. If she strikes up a conversation with you, just talk in simple answers and ask her the same question back. Example: "Hi, do you like sports?". You: "yes I love sports! What about you?
It's that simple. You don't have to say yes to everything, just be truthful. The more you talk to her, the more comfortable you will be around her. Eventually, you can start asking her your own questions. Once this happens, you will know what to do next. Good luck?
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03-24-2014, 12:08 PM
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OMG same thing happened to me! Kind of. But in College. I let myself fall in love and now I act wierd. She flirted with me on class but when I ask for phone number, she doesn&#x27;t text back.She starts ignoring me in class. But on holidays texted me back wishing me happy Christmas and new year. So it seems somewhat she&#x27;s still interested. This year it&#x27;s my year to renew myself. I&#x27;ll ask her how was Christmas and stuff. Now I&#x27;ll treat her as a friend and see how it goes. You should have said to her &quot;Please I want to sit here because I want to talk to Nora. Nora would you mind if I sit here?&quot; Hey, she should have defended you at least if she liked you, or considered you a friend. She would have made the girl move her bag, and besides, chairs are for sitting. You should have said there &quot;Nora sorry for saying to you that I&#x27;m a loner c.rA.P. I kind of have a headache. I would like the company you offered me back there, right now, what do you say?&quot;. Don&#x27;t fall in love with a girl, just like her.
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