So I asked this Girl out..?

[Drew]

Please let me know if you would have handled this situation differently.

I have recently moved to a new town near Memphis, TN. I'm a Guy. I'm in my Mid 20's. College educated, live on my own. 6'2" 180lbs I have a steady job, bla bla bla...

I started hanging out with this group of three couples. I was the 7th wheel so to speak. They were throwing a NYE party and they invited me. Then one of the girls said that she knew a girl who was around the same age as me who needed a good guy and that I should meet her at the party, as we would be perfect for eachother. I said ok. I didn't know anything about her.

Then someone sends me a friend request on facebook and almost instantly cancels it. Facebook sent an email as soon as it happened and I figured it was this girl. So I did my research. She's from San Antonio, TX and loves the Spurs. Her cover photo was a picture of one of their players and she had a few pictures of her wearing their jerseys. I am a huge sports fan and I go to a few Professional games. So I check when the Spurs would be in Memphis playing the Grizzlies. They were coming one time this season and it happened to be January 7th. I thought it was fate or something. So going out on a limb I buy two front row club section seats for the game.

Then NYE comes and I was introduced to her. We started talking and we had a few things in common. One was that we both had the same phone Samsung Galaxy Note 3's. She like many ppl including myself constantly check there phones. I hadn't said anything to anybody about the game and she checks the score of the Spurs vs. Nets game that was going on that night, She says "Yay the Spurs are winning tonight" so that built my confidence.

Before midnight she starts to leave saying that she has to pick her brother up at another party and that she'll be back later. I follow her outside where we are alone and ask her to the game. She looked kinda nervous. She said "Maybe" and that if her phone wasn't dead she'd get my number. I was like "ok" and she left.

Never heard from her after that. She never came back to the party lol. I give my extra ticket to another friend and we have a blast, the game went into overtime and the Spurs ended up winning in the last couple seconds.

The next day I run into her and a female friend at walmart. We lock eyes and nobody says a word. We didn't see each other coming. They were at the end of an aisle and I walked past. I was too nervous to say anything because it happened so quick. I then exited through the garden section to avoid further confrontation lol.

Two things are going through my mind as to why I didn't speak. #1 maybe she doesn't like me and would prefer me not bothering her and #2 I'm better than this. She didn't want to hang out with me and see her favorite team live for free. I don't need to waste my time she must be blind.

Funny thing is I liked her a lot more after she rejected my invite lol.

What are your thoughts? Would you have done something differently?

Thanks for reading.

[malecka lanny]

Add her on fb. If shes interested then she will accept and talk to u.

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[Cat]

Perhaps give it some time.. She's probably a little nervous or doesn't know what to do either. If you wait it out and she talks to you, then all is good. If she doesn't, then you know where you stand. Sometimes girls are hard to get around. But if you're persistent (in a not so 'clingy' way) then anything can happen My boyfriend was interested in me when we first met but I was not interested in him. He added me on facebook, and then I started noticing him a lot more. We got each other's numbers and now happily dating for over a year

[Luke]

Sounds like it might have been a bit much for her. I wouldn't really give it any notice, and it's time to forget about her. If she wants to get in contact all she has to do is contact your friend. Besides that just play it cool and take life how it comes, hell you might meet another girl very soon. Hope this helped.

[Ez2Tock2]

Personally (I might sound like a jerk, but this works for my confidence level, so deal with it) For very sexy attractive girl that makes me skip a heart beat and rejects as easily as she exhales, there will be 100+ more that day or the next. Maybe you blew it, maybe she blew it. How many beauties did you see from the time of the party to the time you crossed paths with her at Wal-Mart? Kinda puts life in your favor, as long as you are Not blind, stupid or gay. There will be alotsa more women. GO PLAYERS!!!